Nsuku zonke umuntu kufanele akhulume nabanye, abonise amakhono abo okuxhumana kanye nezimfanelo zomphakathi nezengqondo zomuntu ngamunye.
Ngokwalo, igama elithi "ubuntu" seluyisici esithile. Emva kwakho konke, umuntu ku-yena kufanele afundiswe. Lokhu kukwakheka kuthonywa yizimfanelo eziningi: ukuqala ngokukhulisiswa, ukuphetha ngethonya lesimo esizungezile ekuthuthukiseni umuntu. Izimfanelo zomphakathi nezengqondo zakhiwe ngaphansi kwethonya lokusebenzisana nabanye abomuntu, ngenxa yalokhu kukhona ukubonakala kwembono, isimo sengqondo somphakathi ngokwakho, abanye abantu, umphakathi wonke. Izimfanelo zomphakathi nezengqondo zomuntu zakhiwa ngaphansi kwezimo zokuxhumana namaqembu omphakathi lapho umuntu eqhuba umsebenzi wokuxhumana.
Izimfanelo zomphakathi zomuntu zibonisa esinye sezici zayo eziyinhloko, okuvumela umuntu ukuba athathe izindima ezithile zemisebenzi yomphakathi. Ngenxa yezimfanelo ezithile, lo muntu uyindawo efanele phakathi kwabanye abantu.
Izimfanelo zomphakathi esakhiweni somuntu siqu zihlukanisa abantu zibe izinhlobo ezintathu:
- Athletics. Abantu abanjalo banezimfanelo zomuntu okhuthele emphakathini ozimisele ukuba phakathi kokunakwa. Athletic ifuna ukunqoba ukwethenjwa kwabanye, ukuthatha isikhundla esiphakeme emphakathini. Abantu abanjalo baphikisa kakhulu.
- Ama-Pickics. Abantu balolu hlobo bavumelane ngokushesha nemvelo entsha. Bakha ubuhlobo nabanye abantu emphakathini ngendlela yokuthi bavikele ngokukhululekile izimiso zabo kanye nezithakazelo ngaphandle kokudala izimpikiswano.
- Asthenics. Abantu abangenasidingo, izethulo, abafisi ukuthola zonke izinhlobo zokuxhumana, ukwenza abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi izimfanelo zomphakathi nezengqondo zomuntu zizimisele:
- Okuqukethwe kombukiso womhlaba womuntu.
- Izinga lobuqotho balo mbono wezwe, kanye nezinkolelo zomuntu siqu.
- Izinga lokuqwashisa isiphetho somuntu emphakathini.
- Izintshisekelo, izidingo. I-degree yokushintsha okusheshayo ukusuka komunye kuya kwenye noma ukuzinza kwayo. Okuqukethwe okuncane kwezidingo nezintshisekelo noma ngokuphambene nalokho.
- Ukubonakala okucacile kweqoqo lezimfanelo ezahlukene.
Ngakho, ukuze uphumelele impilo, umuntu kufanele avuse njalo izimfanelo zomphakathi nezengqondo. Phela, izinga labo lithinta ukusebenza kwemisebenzi yalo.