Izwe le-gloss kanye nezithombe, elihle kakhulu nge-Photoshop, lidukisa, lisho imithetho yalo futhi liphoqele abaningi ukuba babe yinkimbinkimbi ngokuma kwayo. Ngabe kunjalo abesifazane abaye babeletha amanxeba alula, isisu sagging, amathanga aphelele kufanele bazibheke kabi?
Umthwebuli wezithombe waseMelika ovela eChicago, u-Ashley Wells Jackson, ngosizo lwezithombe zakhe, ufuna ukufika emphakathini, kulabo abathandekayo abasanda kuba umama.
"Zibuke ngokwakho esibukweni ngenye amehlo! Uhle, ungumthombo wokuphefumulelwa. Kufanele nje uzithande ukuthi ungubani. Ngehla nge-90-60-90, amazinga wokukhohlisa ngobuhle. Ngamunye wethu ungumuntu ngamunye, ngamunye ngendlela yakhe enhle, "- umdali wephrojekthi" 4 trimester. Umzimba wesifazane ngemuva kokubeletha ", okuhloswe ukusiza omama abasha ukuthi bazamukele futhi baziqhenye ngabalingani babo, baqale ukujabulela isikhathi sokuzalwa komama.
Le phrojekthi yabonakala ngo-2013. Ukudalwa kwakhe kwe-photographer kwakuphefumulelwe ukubeletha kwakhe, izingane. "Ngo-2000, ngangithwele ingane yami yokuqala. Kwakuhlelwe ukuzalwa ekhaya, kodwa ngesonto eli-28 ngaqala ukuhlukana, futhi kwakudingeka ngiye esibhedlela. Indodana yami yachitha izinsuku ezingu-46 ekamelweni lokunakekelwa okukhulu. Ngemva kweminyaka engu-6, ngakhulelwa ngamantombazane amabili. Ngesonto lama-24 ngaphoqeleka ukuthi ngine-cearean. Ngenxa yalokho, indodakazi eyodwa ayizange iphile, futhi izinsuku ezingu-100 zazichitha ekunakekeleni okujulile, futhi kwakudingeka kwenziwe umsebenzi ebuchosheni ukuze kuphulukiswe i-hydrocephalus. Ngemva kokuzalwa, umzimba wami washintsha. Ngayeka ukuzijabulisa. Ngokuvamile eshaweni wayezibandakanya ekuzigxekeni, akucaci ukuthi kungani, wayezithukuthelele. Ukuqeda le mizwa emibi, ngidale le phrojekthi. Ngangifuna ukuthi abesifazane abanjengami babelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, ndawonye bafunda ukwamukela nokuzithanda, "kusho u-Ashley. Yini ephenduke iphrojekthi esasebenza, ungabona ngezansi.
1. Ngamunye wethu ngomuntu oye waba izwe lonke, indawo yonke yangempela.
2. Ubumama yisikhathi esihle kunazo zonke ekuphileni komfazi.
3. Akukho lutho olumnandi kunegama elithi "umama".
4. Kulula kakhulu ukuthanda umzimba wakho.
5. Umzimba wesifazane zonke izinyanga ezingu-9 kwakuyindlu ehlelekile yokuphila okusha.
Ubuhle beqiniso abukho emzimbeni, kodwa ekukhanyeni kwenhliziyo.
7. Ikusasa lesizwe lisesandleni sabomama.
8. Kukhona ithalente ekhethekile - ithalenta yobubele.
9. Ukubeletha kuyinkimbinkimbi kunazo zonke imisebenzi, kuletha injabulo.
10. Ukubeletha kuyinkimbinkimbi kunabo bonke imisebenzi, kodwa kuyabangela injabulo enkulu.
11. Isipho esihle kunazo zonke emhlabeni kukhona ukumamatheka kwesimangaliso esincane.
12. Akukho lutho oluhle futhi oluhle kakhulu kunokuthinta umama.
13. Ukuba ngumama yisona sizathu esiyinhloko sokuthi kungani umuntu engeke ahlanganyele ekuzibhubhiseni.
Uthando lomama yisipho sangempela esithunyelwe kusuka phezulu.
15. Ukubeletha kungumhlobiso omkhulu wesifazane.
16. Konke okubukeka ngothando kubonakala kuhle.
17. Emuntwini konke kulungile kusukela emisebeni yelanga kanye nobisi lomama.
18. Kusukela lapho umntwana ezalwa, inhliziyo yowesifazane iqala ukushaya kwenye isifuba.
19. Lapho nje ingane izwa ukuthi unina uyathokozile futhi uyaziqinela, kuvele kube kuhle kuye.
20. Akukho mculo othakazelisayo kunokwesaba izingane.
21. Uma unezingane, uyazi ukuthi kungani uhlala.
22. Umama ungumfanekiso wezwi lengelosi.
23. Izingane ziyizinsimbi zomama wonke.
24. Ngesikhathi kufika ingane, uyaqonda ukuthi uthando lungenakulinganiswa.
25. Ingane ihlale ibona umama ngokumomotheka.
26. Umndeni onothando nomama ojabulayo yilokho abantwana abakudinga.
27. Umzimba wesifazane uhlale uhle - ulethe impilo entsha emhlabeni.
28. Into kuphela umuntu engalokothi ayikhohlwe yiphunga lomama wakhe.
29. Lapho kuqala umama, ngamunye wethu uba ngowesifazane wesifazane futhi ohle kakhulu.
30. Ukuthola ukungafi - yilokho okushoyo uma izingane zivela.
31. Uthando lwabantwana luthembeke kakhulu emhlabeni.
32. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi izingelosi zibukeka kanjani, bheka ingane yakho.
33. Ngamunye umntwana ubheka unina ukuthi uyena ohlakaniphile kunazo zonke, enhle kunayo yonke futhi enamandla kakhulu.
34. Kuphela izingane zakhe zingaba mnandi kunabesifazane.
35. Umama ungcwele.
36. Umthandazo womama uthatha kusukela phansi kolwandle.
37. Ukukhulelwa kunika owesifazane ithuba lokwenza leli zwe libe lihlanzekile, likhanyise futhi linomusa.
38. Owesifazane onomntwana uhlale ene-aura ekhethekile.
39. Abazali bayajabula lapho izingane zabo zijabula.
40. Izingane zihlala kuqala ngaphansi kwenhliziyo, bese ziba yinhliziyo efanayo.
41. Wonke owesifazane unomfazi omuhle. Udinga ukukwazi ukukubona kuwe.