Abaningi abasoze basolise ukuthi eceleni kwakhe ungumlumbi ongasebenzisa amandla akhe ukulimaza abanye. Ukuze uzivikele ekuthintaneni nomuntu onobungozi, udinga ukwazi ukuthi umlumbi wangempela ubonakala kanjani. Thola ukuthi owesifazane onamandla angaphezu kwemvelo angase abe ngezindlela eziningi, futhi sizokhuluma ngalokhu.
Ukubukeka komlingo wanamuhla?
Naphezu kwesithombe esikrinini, abathakathi babonakala bekhangayo, futhi ngeke uqondisise ukuthi kuyini. Kuneminye imininingwane okufanele uyiqaphele.
Umlumbi wesikhathi sethu ubonakala kanjani:
- Okokuqala, kungenzeka ukuba uqaphele umlingo ngezibonakaliso zangaphandle. Ngezinye izikhathi kwanele nje ukubheka amehlo, njengabesifazane abanamandla omlingo abanokubukeka nokuzibhoboza, okuvela kuyo ofuna ukuphuma kuwo. Amehlo oloyizikhathi ezimweni eziningi ze-shades eluhlaza noma oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
- Emfanekisweni, ngokuqinisekile ungabona ikhwalithi ethile yesilisa, isibonelo, ukukhula okuphezulu, izwi elibi, njll.
- Esinye isici esibalulekile izinwele ezinzima nezinwele. Into ewukuthi izinwele ezikhona zamandla omlingo futhi uma ulahlekelwa yizo, ungakwazi ukuxosha wonke amakhono akho.
- Esigqokeni sakwabuqili, bakhetha imibala emnyama.
- Umlusi ngamunye unomunye uphawu, isibonelo, imvukuzane noma enye indawo, ebizwa ngokuthi uphawu lukaDeveli.
Indlela yokufunda umlumbi ngokuziphatha?
Ukuthola ukuthi ulobu bukeka kanjani, kufanelekile ukukhuluma ngezikhathi ezithile zokuziphatha ezibonisa ukuthi kukhona amandla omlingo. Abesifazane abanamandla omlingo banezinamandla ezinamandla zobulili, ngakho-ke ngaso sonke isikhathi kugxile ekuqaphelisweni kwamadoda. Naphezu kwalokhu, ngokuvamile abathakathi bahlala bodwa . Ngokuvamile ungabona ukuthi uloyi ukhuluma naye. Kumele futhi uqaphele ukuthi ulobi akashintshi ngokuguga.