Ukulingana kuyisimo esiyingqayizivele emphakathini kanye nasengqondweni yezenhlalakahle, okusho uhlobo oluthile lwesikhashana noma, ngamanye amazwi, "umngcele" wezinkambiso zamasiko kanye nesimo somuntu ngamunye maqondana nanoma yimaphi amaqembu emphakathini. Yiqiniso, lesi sikhundla kanye nokuma kobuntu kubangelwa izinhlobo ezibonakalayo zokubonakaliswa kokuziphatha. Ukuhlukaniswa kwemikhakha kubonakala, okokuqala, ngokungenakwenzeka noma ukungafuni ukuzivumelanisa nomuntu ukuba azivumelanise nezimo ezintsha zomphakathi, okuholela ekuphikeleni amasiko namasiko athile namasiko.
Ungavumelani
Ngokuvamile izincazelo ze "ubuntu bomdabu", "abalingani bezenhlalakahle" zisetshenziswe njengegama elifanayo "igama elichazwe", okuyinto eqinisweni, alikho ngokuphelele, nakuba, ngezinga elithile, lingabonisa isimo sangempela ezimweni ezithile. Ngokuqondile, kuyocatshangwa ukuthi abantu abalinganiselwe banesimo esikhethekile sengqondo. Njengabameleli bamaqembu ahlukene emiphakathini yomphakathi, abantu abancane abalahla (futhi ngokuvamile abazamukeli ngokugcwele) amasiko namasiko athile alo mphakathi (ngomqondo obanzi) lapho atholakalayo khona. Abantu abaseceleni banamathele futhi balandele ohlelweni lwabo lwezinkambiso namagugu, ezamukelwe emaqenjini avaliwe noma avaliwe. Amaqembu ahlukene amancane akhiwa ngokusho kwezenhlalakahle, izinkolelo, izinhlanga, amasiko, ubuhle kanye nezinye izimiso, isimo sengqondo sokuziphatha nokuziphatha.
Izilinganiso emphakathini
Yiqiniso, abantu abancane beyinkinga emphakathini wonke, ngoba ukubonakaliswa kwabo okusebenza kahle kwezenhlalakahle kuvame ukudala izimpikiswano. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi iningi labamele amaqembu akhiwe emphakathini ngokwemvelo linamanye amasiko kanye nenani lemikhakha.
Ngakho-ke, njengomthetho, abantu abangekho emkhakheni abakwazi (noma abafuni) ukuziveza ngokugcwele ngamacembu ahlukene futhi babhekwe njengamalungu abo.
Ithonya lamagciwane emphakathini
Ngenxa yenguquko ezakhiweni zomphakathi zomphakathi (hhayi njalo ngejubane elifanayo), imiphakathi emisha esebenzayo yenziwa emnothweni, ezombusazwe kanye namasiko, okuholela ekuthunjweni (noma ukwehlisa amandla) ezinhlanganweni zendabuko kanye nezinhlangano zomphakathi nezamasiko, ezonakalisa isimo sezenhlalakahle zabantu umphakathi wonke. Isimo somphakathi esinjalo singabhekwa njengesikhathi sokuhlukumeza kwezingxabano kanye nokwanda kwezinga lokuhlukanisa iqembu.