Ukucabanga nokuguquguquka kwemvelo kwavela kumuntu ngokwehlukana, kepha ekugcineni sifike ku-symbiosis yabo engapheli. Ukucabangela nokukhuluma kubalingana bomunye nomunye, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi baphathwa ngamunye.
Lapho inkulumo ingadingi ukucabanga?
Ngezinye izikhathi sikhuluma, singacabangi, ngezinye izikhathi sicabanga ngokuthula. Izingane zivame ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokuvimbela kwengqondo, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, zingaba nokucabanga okubukwayo ngaphandle kokuhambisana nenkulumo. Ososayensi bavame ukucabangela, ngenkathi bengasebenzisi inkulumo, futhi kuphela emva kokufaka umphumela wezahlulelo zabo ngesimo somlomo.
Inkulumo isisiza kanjani imicabango?
Inkulumo, okokuqala, iyindlela yokucabanga. Ucabanga ukuthi uzalwa ngosizo lolimi futhi kwenziwa ngenkulumo. Uma kungenjalo ngenkulumo (ngomlomo noma ebhaliwe), kucatshangwa ukuthi kuyokhohlwa kalula, kodwa ngenxa yokukwazi komuntu ukuveza imibono yabo ngokuzwakalayo noma ukubhala phansi, kamuva omunye angabuyela emcabangweni wekhonkrithi futhi acabange ngakho, akhulise futhi awujulise.
Bathi ngubani ocabanga ngokucacile, ukhuluma ngokucacile. Uma ngokucacile ukucabanga komuntu, kuqondisisa kakhulu angachaza. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inkulumo ingasetshenziswa njengendlela yokuthuthukisa ukucabanga. Uma umuntu ehlanjululwe kakhulu ucacisa umcabango ofanayo, ngokucophelela ukhetha amagama ukuklama kwawo, kucacisa umcabango oba kuye.
Ukucabangela kudinga ukukhulunywa nini?
I-psychology yokuxhuma phakathi kwengqondo nenkulumo yukuthi lapho umsebenzi obhekene nenqubo yokucabanga ilula, asidingi ngempela inkulumo. Uma ukucabanga kudlula ngaphandle kobunzima, umuntu akadingi amagama okucabanga, usebenzisa inkulumo kuphela ekupheleni ukuveza ukucabanga.
Umthetho ofanayo usebenza futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Isibonelo, abesifazane bavame badinga inkulumo ekucabangeni. Kungaba nzima ngabo ukuba bahlele umqondo ngokucacile futhi ngokucacile, baze baze bathi yonke imibono isiphetho iqukethe, isiphetho asinakwenziwa.
Okusho ukuthi abesifazane bavame ukukhuluma ukuze baqonde, bazizwe futhi baveze umqondo owodwa.
Noma kunjalo, ukucabanga nomlomo womuntu kusebenza ngokuvumelana namadoda. Abangaphansi kwabesifazane, badinga ukuklanywa ngomlomo kwemicabango yabo ukuze bagxile ezakhiweni ngabanye. Lokhu kuba yisiqinisekiso sokucabanga okuthuthukile, okuqhubekayo, okuhlelekile.
Ukukhunjulwa nokuhlushwa
Ngokuvamile kungenzeka ukubona izingane zesikole, ukuthi, ngokuqonda inkinga yezibalo, zizwakala ngokuzwakalayo. Lesi yisibonelo esivamile sokuxhumana kokucabanga nokukhuluma, lapho umuntu efuna ukukhuluma ukugxila ebuchosheni bakhe emsebenzini, ukuqonda okudingekayo kuye.
Okufanayo kwenziwa ngabantu abadala. Isibonelo, ukuze ukhumbule umcabango, yisho ngokuzwakalayo. Ake sithi utshele ehhovisi likadokotela ngehora lesi-11. Uma ungabhali phansi lokhu, ungakhohlwa kalula. Kodwa uma ubuza futhi usho ngokuzwakalayo "ngosuku lweshumi nanye," ngokuqinisekile uzosindisa idatha ngokukhumbula.
Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo nokukhuluma
Ukuhlukumeza ukucabanga nokukhuluma kwenzeka ngeningi lezinkinga zengqondo, kuhlanganise ne-schizophrenia. Ngezinye izikhathi, yiziphazamiso ezisiza ekutholeni ukuxilongwa kokugcina.
Cabangela ukukhathazeka okuyisisekelo kokucabanga nokukhuluma okwenzeka kulabo abagula ngengqondo:
- i-neologisms, "eyakhe" inkulumo yesiguli ngamagama amasha nencazelo entsha;
- ukucabanga okungenangqondo, ukungabi nemicabango ecacile;
- ukuzwa ukulahlekelwa ukulawula imicabango;
- ukungakwazi ukucabanga okungacabangi - umuntu uthatha amahlaya ngokungathí sina, ngokoqobo, elahlekelwa ikhono lokudweba i-analogies kanye nokufana;
- lapho izinhlobo ezingapheli zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuphakama verbigerization - ukuphindaphinda umshini wamagama nemishwana;
- Ukulahlekelwa ikhono lokuhlukanisa okwesibini nokubaluleke kakhulu.