Isihloko sokufa yilelo nto, lawo mazwi, leyo miqondo engekho noyedwa kithi ofuna ukukusho ngokuzwakalayo. Sonke sibeka imibono ebuhlungu ngalokhu ebhokisini elikude, sizama ukususa ukukhathazeka kwalokhu kungavinjelwe. Kunzima ukukhuluma ngezinto ezinjalo, yingakho kufanele sikwenze lokhu, ngoba ukwamukela ukungavinjelwa kokufa kuyindlela kuphela yokuqeda ukwesaba ukufa.
Ukwesaba ukufa kuyisisekelo sawo wonke amanye ama-phobias
Ake siqale ngalokho abakwa-psychologists abakwaziyo, kodwa abazi i-passer-by elula. Ehliziyweni yazo zonke izinhlobo ze-phobias kukhona ukwesaba ukufa, nguye owenza ukwesaba ukwesaba, okungenakunqotshwa, okungafanelekile ngezimo ezizungezile. Uyesaba ukugibela i-elevator - ngoba uyesaba, uyesaba ukushayela indiza - ngoba wesaba ukushaywa nokufa.
Kungani sesaba ukufa?
Ukuze uziqonde ukuthi ungakunqoba kanjani ukwesaba ukufa, umuntu kufanele aqaphele imbangela yale nkinga eyisisekelo yokwesaba ukufa. Mhlawumbe uzomangala ukuthi lokhu kwesaba akuyona into ehlukile kuzo zonke iziko. Ezikhathini zasendulo, isibonelo (futhi, mhlawumbe, kwezinye izizwe ezahlukaniswa nempucuko), ukufa kwakuyingxenye yokuphila, ngakho-ke abantu babecabanga ukuthi kuyindlela yokuphila yemvelo. Kwakukhona umbono wokuthi ukufa kuguqula izinga elisha lokuphila, ifomethi entsha, uma ufuna.
Namuhla, lapho kuqala inkathi yama-agnostics, izwe alifuni ukukholelwa lokhu. Ngenxa yalokho, sisuke sisuka empilweni yangempela (emva kwakho konke, sonke siyazi ukuthi ukufa kuyingxenye ebalulekile yalo), futhi sifuna insindiso ezweni elinobuhle lapho wonke umuntu enempilo eminingi, lapho edubulisa khona, lapho unamandla onke khona.
Eqinisweni, sithola ukwesaba ukufa ngoba asazi ukuthi yini esizoyilandela.
Indlela yokubhekana nokumesaba?
Usizo lokubhekana nokumesaba
Ngokusemthethweni, ukuze ususe lokhu kwesaba, kanye nakuzo zonke ezinye izinkathazo, kufanele uzibone ngokwakho. Ukwamukela ukuthi awunayo i-blonde, kodwa i-brunette (noma ngokuphambene nalokho), ukwamukela ukuthi awuzalwanga umsizi wombuso wezigidigidi zama dollar, kodwa kunyanzelekile ukuba ufune izindlela zokuzicebisa, ukwamukela nokuzithanda wena, ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Khona-ke uzoyeka ukubalekela empilweni futhi wamukele konke okuhloswe ukuba usinde.