Izindaba ukuthi maduzane uzoba umama, ngeke nje kumangale, kodwa ngisho nokuholela ekudidekeni. Ngokuvamile, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka esikhathini esilungiselele kusengaphambili, ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka ngokungalindelekile, futhi ngesikhathi esingafaneleki. Kwenzeke ukuthi manje umile emngceleni wokuphila okusha. Izindaba ezijabulisayo zanda ngokushesha zanda emndenini zihlakazeke phakathi kwabantu abaseduze nawe, futhi manje ucabanga ngokujulile ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhlala kudingekile ngokugcwele, ngoba manje owesifazane igama elithi "I", ligeleza kahle egameni elithi "thina".
Ukusebenza ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa
Ukugcwaliswa kabusha emndenini ibhizinisi elizimele elidinga kokubili ukutshala izimali nokuziphatha. Ukuze uthi emsebenzini ngokukhulelwa kuyadingeka ngesikhathi esisodwa, akudingekile ukufihla isikhundla sakho esithakazelisayo, ngoba abanye bazolubona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abakhulelwe kufanele babe nesimo sengqondo esikhethekile. Uma, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, umcabango wokuthi ungathandwa kakhulu ngoba usebenzisa amalungelo akho, futhi ususiwe, khumbula, akekho onelungelo lokukhipha owesifazane okhulelwe, ngaphandle kwecala lokusulwa kwebhizinisi noma ukuqedwa kwemisebenzi yayo. Ukusekela isimo sakho, udinga ukuletha isitifikedi sokukhulelwa emsebenzini, esingatholakala kunoma yikuphi ukubonisana kwabesifazane.
Umsebenzi wesikhashana, umsebenzi wesikhathi sesikhathi nokukhulelwa
Ukusebenza ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kunikeza izinguquko ezithile, isibonelo, umqashi kufanele athumele owesifazane okhulelwe ukuba enze isimiso sokusebenza esilula, uma kunesidingo, ngaphandle kokuhamba ngebhizinisi, ukushintshwa ebusuku, ukusebenza ngezimpelasonto namaholide, njll. Ngisho noma owesifazane okhulelwe ephilile ngokuphelele, uma kwenzeka uhlobo lomsebenzi odlule lulimaza isikhundla sakhe, umqashi kufanele amdlulisele emsebenzini wesikhashana ngomthwalo omncane wokusebenza kwempilo. Futhi, uzodinga ukuthola izinkokhelo emsebenzini emsebenzini wokukhulelwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamahloni ngesimo sakho, kodwa ngokuphambene, sebenzisa wonke amalungelo akho nezinzuzo zakho. Lona ilungelo lakho elingokomthetho olunikezwa ukubeletha ingane enempilo futhi eqinile. Phela, akuyona imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuthi ingane, ngenkathi isesimweni sombungu, isivele ikwazi ukuzwa imizwa kanye nokuzwa okufanayo njengomama wakhe. Noma ukucindezeleka noma ukucindezeleka ngokomzimba kungathinta isimo sempilo
Kodwa, ngeshwa, akekho owesifazane osebenzayo okwazi ukugwema ngokuphelele ukucindezeleka emsebenzini. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukwazi nge "isimo", umphathi noma isisebenzi esisebenza naye uzokwenza amazwi angamnandi noma aphakamise ithoni engxoxweni, okungase kuholele ekuphazamiseni kwemizwa. Ngeke ukwazi ukuphendula abaphula umthetho ngokuhlukumezeka komzimba, zama ukuzithiba futhi ukuzinza ngokwengqondo, ngoba akufanelekile izinzwa zakho, futhi ukhathazeke ngomsana, ngoba akasoze abekwe icala, kungani kufanele abe nesaba nomama wakhe.
Ungakhohlwa ngezindlela ezivamile zokucindezeleka ukuxoshwa. Uma ngaphambili ungakwazi ukuthola inkomishi noma ugwayi emva kwengxoxo engathandeki, manje ungenza ukuzivocavoca noma uma kungenzeka ukuhlela ukuhamba emoyeni omusha. Uma lokhu kungenakwenzeka, ungakwazi ukuphuza indebe yetiyi elimnandi nge-mint, noma udle ucezu we-tshokolethi, ngokusho kososayensi, kuyanciphisa izinzwa.
Ukukhulelwa nomsebenzi omusha
Uma umsebenzi womama wesikhathi esizayo engenzi, akunandaba. Thola umsebenzi wesifazane okhulelwe kungenzeka ngempela. Yiqiniso, abaqashi abakasheshanga ukuqasha abesifazane abakhulelwe, ngoba nabesifazane abakhulelwe banenkathazo enkulu, baqashelwa kuphela, futhi sebevele befuna ukuthola indawo, bakhokhele umama, njll. Kodwa, yiqiniso, kukhona indlela yokuphuma. Ezimweni zokuqala zokukhulelwa azikhulumi kakhulu, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthola umsebenzi ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu. Akukhona ukuthi udinga ukukhohlisa umqashi futhi uhlale uthule ngokukhulelwa, kungenxa yakho nje lapho kubalulekile ukuthola umsebenzi ukuze ukwazi ukuhlinzeka wena nomntwana ngokwezimali. Ngakho-ke, kuzodingeka uziphathe ngendlela efanele, uma uyakwazisa impilo yengane yakho, hhayi inhlalakahle "yomalume womunye umuntu." Ungazivuli ukuvula amanga lapho uqasha, vele uphendule imibuzo ethile mayelana nokukhulelwa ngendlela eqondisiwe noma engaqondakali, ngaphandle kokunikeza isikhundla sakho. Ngempela, awunayo ingane okwamanje.
Ngakho, uthola lo msebenzi. Yeka ukuthi ungaba kanjani manje nozakwethu nabaphathi abaye bakhohliswa ngawe ekusebenzeni emsebenzini. Kunconywa ukukhombisa kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuqashwa ukuthi uyisisebenzi esinomthwalo wemfanelo, esibalulekile futhi esingenakuphikiswa. Abaqashi bayakwazisa abasebenzi abanjalo, ngakho-ke bayothatha indlela enhle kakhulu yobungani bakho obuzayo. Futhi, zama ukuba nobungane nobungane nabalingani emsebenzini, noma kunjalo, abangane abasha bazokwazi ukukusebenzela phambi kwabaphathi bakho.
Ukukhulelwa nokusebenza kwikhompyutha
Umsebenzi wokuhlala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa awunqatshiwe. Uma isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini uhlezi ekhompyutheni noma nje etafuleni, kungaholela ekujuleni kwegazi ku-pelvis encane. Zama ukuhlukanisa uhlelo lomsebenzi ukuze ngosuku lokusebenza ungakwazi ukunikeza isikhathi sokushaja kalula noma ukuhamba okuncane. Hambisa kaningi phakathi nosuku lonke lokusebenza, hamba okuningi ngesikhathi sakho sokuphumula.
Sebenza ngekhefu lokubeletha
Abanye besifazane bacabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi basebenza ekhaya ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ngoba baqonda ukuthi ukuzalwa kwengane ngeke kuvumele, njengoba ngaphambili, ukuba bahlanganyele kuphela emisebenzini. Indlela enhle kakhulu yokuphuma kulezi zimo izoba isebenza ekhaya, ongayifaka ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana, ezigabeni zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Njengoba usuqale ukusebenza ngokushesha ngemuva kokukhulelwa, uzongisindisa ekucindezelekeni okungenzeka kokuthunyelwa ngemuva. Kodwa, njenganoma yimuphi umsebenzi, ukusebenza ekhaya kunezici zayo, ngakho-ke kufanele uhlole yonke into ngaphambi kokuba wenze ukukhetha kokugcina.
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