Ukuthula kwengqondo

Omunye umlandela kumakhompeli aseBuddha asezindaweni zasendulo noma uhambo oluya eNdiya. Lokhu kusiza ukwazi okuyisisekelo sokuba khona futhi ube ngumuntu okhululekile futhi ozolile ngaphakathi. Kodwa-ke, akuwona wonke umuntu ongenakho ukukwazi ukuhlukana nokuyiqiniso, futhi abaningi baphoqeleka ukuba bafune ezinye izindlela zokuthola ukuthula kwengqondo nokuvumelana.

Indlela yokufeza ukuthula kwengqondo?

Akungabazeki ukuthi izwe liyashintsha njalo, futhi abantu baphoqeleka ukuba bavumelane nezimo ezintsha, bephuthumise ijubane lokuphila, bezama ukukwenza futhi bafeze okwengeziwe. Kodwa-ke, uma umuntu ephumelela ngokwengeziwe uba, angaphansi kokuthola amathuba okuthola ukuthula kwengqondo nokuzwana futhi lokhu kubonakala ngabaningi. Abantu abahlakaniphile kuphela abavula iqiniso futhi nanka amaphuzu ayinikezayo:

  1. Akekho ozoxoxa, hhayi ukulahla nokungena ebhizinisini labanye abantu. Ukwenqaba ukugxeka, ungayiyeka futhi ekhelini lakhe, ngakho-ke ukuhleka nokuhleba akuphazamisi ukuthula kwengqondo.
  2. Ungabi nomhawu futhi uthethelele. Intukuthelo iduduza umphefumulo, futhi ukungathetheleli kuyaphikisana nokucindezeleka kakhulu, ngoba uvuka bese elala nomcabango wesilonda sakhe esingokomoya, angamvumeli ukuba adonsele phambili.
  3. Finyelela ukuthula kwengqondo nokulinganisela kuphela uma ungazami ukushintsha umhlaba ube ngcono. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ukwazi ukuqonda izinkinga, izinto ezingadingekile nabantu abangathandeki. Kungcono ukuthuthukisa umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi.
  4. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungayifinyelela kanjani ukuthula kwengqondo, kufanele uzame ukukwenza kuphela imisebenzi eyenzekayo, ungadingi kakhulu kuwe futhi ungalindeli udumo oluvela kwabanye abantu.

Ngokuvamile, ungancoma ukuba ube nekhonti lapho okungenani ngezinye izikhathi ungase ube yedwa futhi wenze okujabulisayo. Ubumbano ngemvelo lubuye lubuyele kumagagasi alungile, kanye nokwenza imidlalo. Kubalulekile ukuzungezela kuphela nalabo bantu abathandekayo ukuba basondele.