I-Dowry yengane esanda kuzalwa

Ukuvela kwengane emhlabeni kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwabazali. Iningi labomama nabazali abalindayo balungiselela ukuzalwa komntwana onomthwalo wemfanelo futhi balwela ukulungisa konke okudingekayo kumntwana osanda kuzalwa. Kodwa-ke, labo abalindele umntwana okokuqala, ngokusondela kosuku oluthandwayo, kuphakama imibuzo eningi. Omunye wabo: "Ngumuphi umdanso odingekayo kumntwana osanda kuzalwa nokuthi uyowuthenga nini?"

Kukholelwa ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe akufanele athenge i-dowry yengane ngaphambi kokubeletha. Omama abaningi abazayo bayalandela lesi seluleko, besaba nganoma iyiphi indlela yokulimaza ingane yabo. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyinkolelo-ze futhi wonke umuntu ulungiselela kusengaphambili. Noma kunjalo, kuzo zombili izimo, omama abazayo bayothola ohlwini lwamadayari wezingane ezisanda kuzalwa - izinto izinyane elizodinga kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila. Ngezansi uhlu lwezinto ezinganeni, ezihlanganiswa nabomama abanolwazi ngeziphakamiso zabantwana besidokotela.

Ukuthenga okukhulu:

Kuloluhlu, izinto ezintathu zokuqala ziyisisekelo esibaluleke kakhulu ohlwini lododi lwengane esanda kuzalwa.

Ukunakekela izinsana:

Abazali abaningi bancedisa lolu hlu ngabantwana bokuqapha, izimonyo zezingane, izikali zezingane kanye nabanye abaningi. Konke lokhu kukhona izinto ezengeziwe ezixhunywe kusana olusanda kuzalwa.

Ukulala:

Engeza uhlu lwamazinsana wengane lungaba yikhonkwane yesikhumba, itende, ikhoneni elikhethekile lesembozo sokugqoka (lokhu kulungele ukuhamba kwebusika).

Izembatho zezingane ezisanda kuzalwa:

Uhlu lwama-dowry olusanda kuzalwa ehlobo kufanele lubandakanye izinto eziningi zekotoni, ngeholide lezingane ezisanda kuzalwa ebusika, entwasahlobo nasekwindla - ngenxa ye-baize ne-woolen.

Izinto zokudla kwezingane:

Ukwengeza, ungathenga isitsha sezinja zamabhodlela, i-heater yezingxube zezingane nokunye okuningi.

Abazali kufanele banakekele ngokwehlukana i-dowry yengane esesibhedlela nasesitatimendeni. Isibhedlela sizodinga amafilimu, izingubo zezingane, imvilophu yomsana kanye nesitoreji sokuqala. Ukukhishwa kwengane kuvame ukugqoka indwangu ehlakaniphile.

Izinto eziningi ezivela kuhlu lwadowry lwengane ezisanda kuzalwa zingenziwa ngezandla zomuntu siqu. I-Needlework, ikakhulukazi ezinyangeni zokugcina zokukhulelwa, kuyisenzo esihle sokuphumula. Futhi izinto ezenziwe ngothando ngomntwana ngezandla zazo zihlale zihlonishwa kakhulu.