"Ukuphila kuyimbango engapheli. Abantu abakwazi ukuwagwema, kepha bangaxazulula "- ngakho-ke umcwaningi wezengqondo waseMelika uB. Wool ucatshangelwe.
Izingxabano zomsebenzi zivamile. Mhlawumbe, ngamunye uyazi ngokungaqondi kokusebenza nabo, ukungafani nokuphikisana emsebenzini. Ngamunye wethu kwakudingeka abhekane nesimo esinjalo kanye kuphela. Kodwa akubona wonke umuntu owazi ukuxazulula impikiswano emsebenzini, indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanele nendlela yokuphuma ngokwanele esimweni samanje.
Ngakho, ukuqala ngakho kuyadingeka ukuqonda, yini ngempela eyenza ukuhlukana phakathi kozakwethu. Maye, kunezizathu eziningi zokuphikisana emsebenzini:
- Ukungezwani phakathi kosizi nomuntu ophansi. Lesi yisibonelo esivame kakhulu sokungqubuzana emsebenzini. Owokuqala angase angahambisani nobuchwepheshe kanye nomsebenzi wesisebenzi, owesibili - inkokhelo, ukungabi nokukhuthazwa nokukhula komsebenzi;
- isabelo esinzima sokuzibophezela;
- ukuphikisana kwezintshisekelo kanye namaphuzu okubuka. Lesi simo ngezinye izikhathi siba yinjini yentuthuko futhi sikhuthaza intuthuko;
- ukungathandi komuntu siqu. Iziyaluyalu ngokumelene nokungazithandi muntu ziyingozi futhi zilimaza kakhulu. Baphazamisa umsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele.
Noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana kuyinkimbinkimbi yokuphila, ngakho kufanele iqondiswe. Ukuxazulula izingxabano emsebenzini akuyona nje indaba yomphathi wezisebenzi, kodwa umphathi ngokwakhe. Umsebenzi walo oqondile ukudala isimo lapho ukungqubuzana kungeke kwande ngejubane elikhulu. Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke umphathi owaziyo ukuxazulula impikiswano emsebenzini.
Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zokugwema izingxabano emsebenzini:
- Uma uthola umsebenzi, qonda ngokucacile imithwalo yemfanelo yakho. Ungaphrinta incazelo yomsebenzi.
- Unganiki isizathu. Ukuze usebenze ngokuziphendulela, ungasheshi, uhloniphe.
- Uma amaphuzu okubuka engavumelani, lalela i-interlocutor bese uveza umbono wakho ngokuthula.
- Musa ukuhleka!
- Uma ubona umona noma ungazithandi, hlala uphile futhi unakekele izinzwa zakho. Phatha ngokugxekwa ukuhlekwa kozakwethu.
Kuthiwani uma nginezingxabano emsebenzini?
Kuhlale kungcono ukugwema izingxabano. Kodwa-ke, uma lesi senzakalo sisekhona, udinga ukwenza ukuziphatha okulungile. Nazi ezinye iziqondiso ezilula zokuxazulula impikiswano emsebenzini:
- ungalokothi uhambe kubuntu futhi ungahilelani ozakwabo;
- Ungabuyi emuva, ungabonisi ubuhlungu. Bheka uhloniphekile;
- "Yehlisa phansi" bese uqala izingxoxo;
- Ukusebenzisana kudinga ukuxhumana njalo. Gcina ithoni yokungathathi hlangothi lapho ukhuluma ngomsebenzi;
- Uma ingxabano ithatha ushintsho olubi, yazise inhloko. Ukungavumelani kwangaphakathi kungalimaza imbangela evamile.
Uma ufuna, ungahlala uthola ukuzithengisa futhi uzuze ukuqonda okubili: ukuqeda izimbangela zokuphikisana nokuxabana, kuhle ukuxazulula impikiswano. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngisho nezwe eliphilile lingcono kunokuxabana.