Phakathi naleso sikhathi, wonke owesifazane ufuna ukujabulela injabulo engafanele ehambisana nobuhlobo bobulili obuhlukile bobulili obuhlukile. Yingakho omama abasha bavame ukuba nesithakazelo ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukushaya indlwabu emva kokubeletha, futhi emva kwesikhathi esingazijabulela ngayo ngale ndlela.
Ngingakwazi yini ukushaya indlwabu emva kokubeletha?
Iningi labazali bezinkinga zokubeletha liyavuma ukuthi ngokushaya indlwabu emva kokubeletha akukho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo. Noma kunjalo, nakuba umzimba womama omncane engakalungele impilo egcwele ngokocansi, konke okucindezelayo kule nqubo kufanele kubekwe kuphela ezitho zangasese zangaphandle.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukushaya indlwabu kungenziwa kuphela ezimweni zokuhlanzeka okuphelele. Njengoba kukhona amathuba amakhulu okutheleleka kule nkathi, izandla, izitho zangasese kanye nanoma yiziphi izinto ezisetshenziselwa ukwaneliseka ngokwabo kufanele zihlanzwe ngokucophelela besebenzisa abahlanza kahle.
Ngokuqondene nombuzo, ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa ngemva kokubeletha kungenzeka ukuba ukushaya indlwabu, akunakwenzeka ukunikeza impendulo engavamile lapha. Umzimba wawo wonke wesifazane ungumuntu ngamunye, futhi njengendlela evamile, ukwaneliseka kungase kuqale lapho umama osemncane ngokwakhe ezwa ekulungele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungcono ukuyeka ukushaya indlwabu isikhathi esithile uma kunezici ezilandelayo ezimbi:
- ubuthakathaka obuvamile kanye nezinkinga ezimbi kakhulu;
- ukukhishwa okujulile kusuka kumgogodla womzimba ngephunga elimnandi;
- ububele bezintambo;
- ukulimala okuqhubekayo ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
Kuzo zonke lezi zimo, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwaneliseka, kufanele uhlale uthintana nodokotela.