I-Orthodoxy inomusa kakhulu kwabesifazane abakhulelwe. Amakholwa acabangela ukuthi isibeletho singumntwana ongcwele uma kukhona umntwana kuwo. Namuhla, sizoxoxa ngokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi umshado ukhulelwe, uma ngesizathu esithile, lo mbhangqwana awunaso isikhathi sokwenza ngaphambi kokukhulelwa nokukhulelwe .
Isonto nomshado
Umshado wezomnotho awuvunyelwe yimuphi umpristi, isonto libona ubuhlobo obhalisiwe ngokusemthethweni kuphela. Uma usuvele ungumyeni nomfazi, khona-ke kulokhu umshado ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngeke uhluke emshadweni ojwayelekile. Kodwa hhayi njalo umama wesikhathi esizayo usetshenzisweni lomthetho, okwenziwa ngamazinga esonto kuthathwa njengesono noma ubufebe. Nokho, uma owesifazane esesimweni, ngaphambi kukaNkulunkulu, uhlanzekile. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane okhulelwe angashada noma kunjalo. Ukukhula ngaphakathi kwengane yakhe kusho ukuthi uNkulunkulu wabusisa lo mbhangqwana wabanika impilo entsha. Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuvakashela esontweni kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, ikakhulukazi uma umshado uzayo. Kungcono ukwenza lokhu nomlingani wakho.
Umshado wesifazane okhulelwe
Noma yimuphi umshado uqala ngokuhlanganyela kanye nokuvuma. Umfundisi wesonto uzofunda imithandazo eminingana, bese ucela abashade ukuba bavume. Uma ungazange umxwayise umpristi mayelana nokukhulelwa, kwenze manje. Akunakwenzeka neze ukufihla lokhu. Umshado esontweni owesifazane okhulelwe uzothatha cishe ihora, ngakho-ke udinga ukulungiselela lokhu kusengaphambili. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane abakhulelwe banomfutho wegazi ophansi, abavulekile noma abanesizungu. Ukuvimbela izikhathi ezingathandeki futhi ezingathandekayo phakathi nomkhosi, sitshele mayelana nenhlalakahle engafanele kayise, uthathe imithi edingekile, uphuze itiye lokuqeda. Owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele ashade, kodwa ezimweni ezingavamile kuvunyelwe ukuhlala phansi.
Ngokuqondene nezicathulo, zithande izithende eziphansi. Lokhu ngeke nje kube lula ukwenza inqubo, kepha kuzoba okufanelekile esontweni. Izingubo zomshado zabesifazane abakhulelwe kufanele zibe mahhala futhi zide, zivale amahlombe nesifuba. Kungcono uma behlonywe emikhondweni yemvelo: ukotini noma ifilakisi. Amafutha emshadweni ayimpoqo, njengoba ehlanganisa ikhanda lomfazi.
Ethempelini ngemuva kwehhovisi lokubhalisa
Ikhethelo elihle lizoba ngumshado ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa emva kokubhaliswa komshado ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Kulokhu, konke kuzokwenziwa ngokuvumelana nemithetho yama-Orthodox. AmaKristu akholwa yiqiniso akholelwa ukuthi ukuzalwa kwezingane ngaphambi komshado kuyisono. Ngakho-ke, uma ungenayo isikhathi sokushada ngaphambi kokukhulelwe, yenzeni ngemuva. Ukushada nokukhulelwa akukona ukuphikisana. IBhayibheli lithi umama oshadile uyoba ohlanzekile lapho ezalwa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukulethwa kuzoba buhlungu kakhulu futhi ingane izoba ngcono.
Ukukhulelwa emva komshado kuthatha isibusiso sikaNkulunkulu, kusukela manje ingane kanye nabazali bayo baboshwe ezulwini ngezibopho ezingcwele. Kuze kube sekupheleni kwesikhathi, owesifazane kufanele aye ethempelini, ngaphambi kokuzalwa kuyisifiso sokuthola isibusiso sompristi, ukuvuma nokwamukela ukuhlanganyela. Kungakapheli izinsuku ezingama-40 emva kokuvela kwengane, umama omncane akakwazi ukuvakashela isonto. Kukholelwa ukuthi phakathi nalesi sikhathi zonke ukukhishwa kwe-postpartum zihamba. Ngemuva kokuphela kwabo, ungakwazi futhi ukuwela emngceleni wethempeli.
Kungani ungashadi okhulelwe?
Umshado kufanele ube ngokuzithandela. Kukhona amacala lapho owesifazane okhulelwe ephikelela ekubambeni isakramente, kodwa umyeni uhlelwe ngokumelene nalo. Umshado ophoqelekile awuhambisani kahle, kubhekwa njengesono. Isinqumo esivumelwaneni kuphela somshado sizokwenza umshado ube namandla futhi ujabule. Azikho ezinye izithiyo zomshado wesifazane okhulelwe.
Le nkonzo yasendulo iye yasinda nanamuhla, futhi ayizange ilahlekelwe ukubaluleka kwayo nhlobo. Abashadile baqhubeka bebopha izibopho zabo phambi kukaNkulunkulu, okuyinto evamile (noma kunjalo, ngeshwa, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi) kubonisa isimo sengqondo esibi ngokuqondene nomshado wesizukulwane esincane.