Uma isikhathi sokubeletha sifinyelela emavikini angu-39, ingane isivele ilukhuni ukuba isibelethweni. Ngemuva kokuthi zonke izinyane ligcwalise zonke izibilini zesibindi futhi kulokho akukho ndawo yokujika, ngaphandle kwalokho, kukhona nokunyama. I-Chad ifuna ukuphuma ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka "inkululeko" ukuthatha umoya womoya omusha futhi ubukeze nxazonke.
Ngenxa yokuthi ingane yakho isivele izama ukuphuma, izinzwa ezingavamile zivela evikini lama-39-40 lokukhulelwa. Lokhu kungabonisa ukuzalwa okuzayo. Kungokuthi ngalesi sikhathi umntwana ushaya phansi ekhanda, ngenxa yalokho isifo sesisu esiwela phansi, siba sesifushane. Njengomthetho, izimpawu ezilandelayo zingase zivele ezinsukwini zokubeletha:
- ukuphuma kwegazi kusuka emgunyeni wokuzala;
- ukuphuma kwiphubhu elimnandi ;
- ukunciphisa kancane kwesisindo;
- isitoreji sincane kakhulu kunokujwayelekile;
- ukwandisa ukudla;
- ukuvela kwesimiso se "nesting", okubonakala emzimbeni womzwelo wesifazane futhi uqala ukuhlomisa "isidleke" somntwana.
Yiqiniso, lezi zimpawu akuzona njalo insimbi enembile yokuqala komsebenzi, kodwa noma kunjalo, ngesikhathi esifanele sekufanelekile ukuba uqaphele kakhulu.
Ukugubha ingane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa emavikini angu-39 kuya kwangu-40
Ngesikhathi sokuqala ingane ivumela ukwazi ngaye, endaweni ethile kusuka emavikini angu-20-22. Usebenza kulo lonke isikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi ngaphezulu, ngezinye izikhathi ngaphansi. Izingane zihamba phambili, zihamba imilenze nezingalo, i-hiccups, i-yawns futhi iphefumula. Wonke lo mama angase azizwe. Kodwa sesivele sisondele evikini lesishiyagalombili, ingane iqala ukubonisa imizwelo encane, ngoba ayikho indawo eyanele "yemidlalo". Akanaso isikhala esanele sokukhululeka futhi alinde ukuqala komsebenzi.
Ngokuvamile ngesikhathi esifanayo ingane iqala ukulala nonina, esikhundleni sokuzihlanganisa ngendlela efanayo nangaphambili: ukwenza konke okuzungeze indlu, ukuhamba ngaphandle, ubukele i-TV, uhlezi njengegundane, kodwa ulale phansi futhi uvale amehlo akho, njengomfana ongeyena ovusa ukudla ukudla futhi ubhekene nesisu esiswini sakhe ngokushesha nje lapho efuna.
Inani elivamile lokunyakaza kwe-fetal emva kwamasonto angu-32 lokukhulelwa kubhekwa ukuthi okungenani ayishumi amahora ayisithupha. Uma ubona umsebenzi wengane amahora ayishumi nambili, inombolo yabo kufanele ibe okungenani 24. Uma ingane isile kakhulu futhi inani elidingekile lokunyakaza lingenakwenzeka, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukubona udokotela.
Ukunikezwa kwamasonto angu-39 kuya kwangu-40 okubeletha
Ngokuvamile kulo lonke isikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukuphuma kwamagciwane kuningi, ngezinye izikhathi kumhlophe futhi kunzima. Izinkomba yizo ezingenakho iphunga elimnandi nombala ongajwayelekile: ophuzi, obala obala, obomvu noma ukhilimu. Ukubonakala kwezimfihlo "ezinemibala" kuhlale kuwuphawu lwezifo ezithathelwanayo, okumele kuphuthume ngokuphuthumayo.
Kodwa uma ulayishwa nge-trace yegazi kubonakala kakade emavikini angu-39 noma angu-40, akufanele ukhathazeke. Lokhu kusho ukuthi yisikhathi sokuqoqa zonke izinto ezidingekayo futhi ulungele ukuya esibhedlela. Ngezinye izikhathi ngaphambi kokubonakala kwemfihlo enjalo emasontweni amaningana, ukuqeqeshwa ukulwa kungase kubonakale ukuthi kulungiswa isisu sokubeletha.
Kodwa khumbula! Uma izibhamu zenziwa nge-periodicity emizuzu engu-5-10, lokhu akusekho iseshini yokuqeqesha, kodwa ukuzalwa kwangempela futhi akudingeki udonse isikhathi. Kubalulekile ukubiza i-ambulensi eyokuthatha esibhedlela. Akudingekile ukusheshisa, ngoba inqubo yokuzalwa ayikho ngokushesha njengoba ibonakala.
Ukuphela kwamasonto angu-39 ukubeletha
Ngakho-ke, uma isikhathi sokubeletha sidlula amasonto angu-39, kufanelekile ukuba silungele iqiniso lokuthi ekuqaleni kwamaviki angu-40 kufanele kube khona ukuzalwa. Ngezinye izikhathi umcimbi onjalo ungase ube sekwephuzile kancane, futhi ingane izozalwa emavikini angu-41. Kodwa nokho indlela esemqoka idlulile kakade futhi kukhona kancane ngaphambi kokubona ingelosi yakho.