Ukukhula nokukhula, izingane zethu zifunda okuthile okusha nsuku zonke futhi zenza izimangaliso. Ngesinye isikhathi ama-pranksters amancane angena e-stupor futhi esaba abazali bawo, eqala ukwenza izenzo ezingenakuqondakala kubantu abadala. Inkinga evamile kubazali abaneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala ukuthi ingane yabo igoqa ikhanda lakhe ngokumelene nodonga noma phansi. Kulesi simo, ungesabi futhi usabe ukhathazekile, izingane ezingamaphesenti angu-20 zalesikhathi zinalo mkhuba, futhi ngokuvamile zivela kubafana.
Kungani ingane ikhanda ikhanda?
Ngemva kokubona umntwana, lapho ethola ukuthi yini eyandulela lesi senzo, uzoqonda ukuthi kungani ingane ishaya ikhanda lakhe.
Mhlawumbe ingane yakho iphelile, isibonelo, ngaphambi kokulala. Ukuzulazula okungafani, imisindo yomculo noma izenzo kusukela ekuzalweni kuhlangene naye ngokuthula nenduduzo. Khumbula indlela owagubha ngayo ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa, uhlabelela i-lullaby noma ubiza ngokuthi "ah-ah-ah, ah-ah." Ngakho-ke, ingane iyazama ukubuyela kuleso simo sokuphumula futhi sisondelane nonina. Yamukela isimangaliso sakho, umculele i-lullaby, funda incwadi noma ukhulume nje - ingane yakho kufanele yazi ukuthi wena uyithandwa kakhulu, ilinde isikhathi eside futhi lowo mama uzohlala ekhona.
Ingane ivame ukushaya ikhanda lakhe ngenxa yokungalindeleki kwabazali. Sonke siyashesha endaweni ethile, sisheshe ukulungisa izinto eziningi, sikhohlwe ngendoda yethu encane kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, umcabango uzama ukukutshela ukuthi: "Mama, ngilapha!" Ngiphawule, dlala nami! ".
Lokhu kuziphatha kwengane kungachazwa ngomzamo wokuzihlukanisa nokuzizwa okungathandeki, isibonelo, ubuhlungu obukhulu. Ezizwa engakhululekile futhi engenamandla, uzama ukunaka esinye isenzo.
Esinye sezizathu ezivame kakhulu ukuthi kungani ingane ishaya ikhanda lakhe ngokumelene nodonga noma phansi kuyindlela yokuthukuthela nentukuthelo. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kuyindlela yokuvimbela abazali. Izingane zizama nje ukukuphatha, zicabanga ukuthi ngokuzizwela, uMama nobaba bazozithoba kuye. Ngizokweluleka ukuthi ukuhlaselwa okunjalo kungamnaki, ngokuqinisekile, kususwe izinto eziyingozi endaweni ye-prankster.
Ukufingqa, ngithi-thanda izingane zakho, ubhekane nazo, udlale, ukhulume. Izingane zethu azidingi ukunakekelwa nokudla kwansuku zonke kuphela, kodwa futhi othandweni olungapheli, ukunakekelwa nokunakwa kwabazali babo. Uma ingane yakho isangena phansi bese ishaya ikhanda layo, ingabe ingaba encane?