Kuyini ukwaneliseka kowesifazane, nokuthi ungaba kanjani owesifazane ongeke uguqe induku? Yonke lena yimigqa efihlakeleyo yokuzinyuka kwamantombazane, okuhluke kakhulu kwendoda. Sizokukhuluma ngendlela yokuba owesifazane ozinakekelayo futhi ugcine lezi zici namuhla.
Izinzuzo zokuphila okwanele
Okokuqala, sizoqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nokwanele. Leli gama lisho ikhono lokuma ngokuqinile ezinyaweni zakho futhi uzizwe phansi. Lena yinkimbinkimbi yomsindo phakathi kwakho. Lokhu ukuphelela okuzovumela ukubuka ngesithunzi kunoma yisiphi isimo. Kuzwakala kukhangayo, kodwa yini ekulindele wena, emva kokuba usuvele ube umuntu ozimele:
- Awudingi ukubhekana nokuningi ngokwehluleka, bazoqala ukukusebenzela;
- akudingeki ukuba unqobe abantu abaningi, bayothokozwa amandla akho angaphakathi angenele;
- uzosindisa amantongomane amaningi namandla, ngoba uyeka umona nokuzonda;
- uzohlala ufezekisa umgomo wakho.
Indlela yokuzitholela ngokwanele
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokwanela ukushintshela ku-self-service. Kufanele uzihlinzekele futhi uxazulule zonke izinkinga zakho, ngaphandle kwalokhu, ngeke kube khona ukuzithelela.
Zithande futhi uzizinakekele. Ukuze uzizwe ingcebo yakho ngaphakathi, udinga ukwaneliswa nokubukeka kwakho.
Hlanganisa umbuthano wokuxhumana "ongadingekile" abantu. Unabangane, kodwa abanakho. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ufunde ukwenza njalo ukuthi izingxoxo kumbuthano onobungane zenziwa ngezihloko ozidingayo nangesikhathi esifanele kuwe.
Umuntu owanelisayo uhlale enenjongo - nangomuso, nangenyanga, nangonyaka. Uma ungenayo imigomo, uzophila ukuze ufeze imigomo yabanye abantu kanye nokuphila komunye umuntu. Izinhloso zakho zizokwenza isikhathi sakho sakha futhi impilo yakho izohamba ngendlela efanele kuwe.
Ungalokothi ugejane nokugeleza, kodwa ungashukuli ngokumelene nalo. Kufanele ugijime kuphela lapho udinga ngempela.