Noma yimuphi umkhuba wenkolo ugozwe ubuningi bokubandlulula. Akumangalisi ukuthi isihloko sokuthi owesifazane okhulelwe angaya esontweni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ashade nowesifazane okhulelwe, ubangela imibono ehlukahlukene. Ukuze uqonde le nkinga, kufanelekile ukunaka ngqo lokho ibandla lobuKristu elikucabanga ngalokhu.
Ukukhulelwa esontweni
Umbono wokuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuya esontweni kuphutha kakhulu futhi baphuthumayo. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlukumezeka nokubandlululwa okuhlukahlukene okuye kwadlula kithi esizukulwaneni esidala, ikakhulukazi kubagogo bethu, banezimpande ezicacile. Isibonelo, kwakukholelwa ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe esontweni bangamane nje "jinx", ngoba esontweni namaholide kunabantu abaningi.
Isizathu sesibili kwaba ukunakekelwa okuyisisekelo empilweni yowesifazane okhulelwe, ngoba ngesikhathi sokulindela umntwana owesifazane uvame ukubhekene ne-toxicosis, futhi isisu esikhulu siphutha ngokuqondile. Futhi, isibonelo, ukucabanga ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe baya esontweni, abaningi baveza ukufana nezinsuku zokuya esikhathini, lapho ukuvakashela isonto kungathandeki.
Ukukhulelwa neSonto
Umshado uyisakramente, okubaluleke kakhulu kuwo wonke amakholwa. ISonto libheke lomshado njengesibusiso sikaNkulunkulu, esinikezwa ekudalweni komndeni kanye nokuqhubeka komndeni. Enye into - umshado wesifazane okhulelwe, ngoba, kubonakala sengathi owesifazane, osevele esesimweni ngaphandle kwemvume yeNkosi ngomshado, usevele eyisoni, ngakho-ke le nhlangano kufanele ibhekwe njengobufebe. Eqinisweni, ngokusho kwamaKristu e-Orthodox, wonke umuntu angaba nokholo nganoma isiphi isikhathi. Ngakho-ke, akunakwenzeka kuphela ukushada owesifazane okhulelwe, kodwa futhi kuyadingeka, noma kunjalo, uma isifiso sokuya esontweni akushiwo ngethonya lemfashini, kodwa livela enhliziyweni.
Okusemandleni kakhulu uma labo abasanda kushada masinyane emva komkhosi osemthethweni ejensi yokubhalisa kahulumeni baya esontweni. Kodwa uma ngesizathu esithile umshado kufanele uhlehliswe, isonto alikuvimbeli inqubo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngaphambi komkhosi womshado, lo mbhangqwana kumele uvume futhi uthathe isidlo. Ngokwesonto, uma omunye wabashadayo engafuni ukushada, umfowenu noma ungamcindezeli. Kulesi simo, ilungu elikholwayo lomndeni omusha lingathandazela kuphela isigamu sabo bese silindele ukuthi lo mlingani afike esinqumweni esibalulekile esedwa.
Izici zomkhosi
Umshado esontweni lowesifazane okhulelwe uhambisana nama-nuances okumele agciniwe ukuze kungabikho lutho olungagubha umkhosi obalulekile kuwe. Iqiniso liwukuthi inqubo yomshado ihlala cishe imizuzu engaba ngu-40-60, ukuthi uzovuma kakhulu kowesifazane okhulelwe ngesikhathi esilandelayo.
Umshado ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kufanele ucatshangelwe ngemininingwane encane kakhulu. Isibonelo, kungcono ukunikeza okuthandayo izingubo ezivulekile nezicathulo ngaphandle kwesithende. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi izingubo zokugqoka akufanele zifake isisu nesifuba. Ngale ndlela uzozizwa ukhululekile kulo mkhosi.
Yonke imininingwane yomcimbi womshado kufanele ixoxwe nompristi kusengaphambili. Ngesinye isikhathi umuntu kufanele azifihle isikhundla sakhe kuBaba Ongcwele. Khumbula ukuthi ibandla lithatha ukukhulelwa njengomusa weNkosi.
Eqinisweni, ucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe bangene esontweni, okokuqala kufanele wazi ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuyisibusiso. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abakhulelwe esontweni abakwazi ukuhamba kuphela, kodwa futhi kudingeka. Kodwa emva kokubeletha zingakapheli izinsuku ezingama-40 zokuvakashela isonto kungcono ukwenqaba. Kule nkathi lapho ukuphela kuphelile, futhi owesifazane uhamba ngesikhathi sokuvuselela.