Ngokuvamile abantu baya esontweni uma badinga ukwesekwa ngokholo lwabo kuNkulunkulu, bafuna ukuthandazela bona kanye nempilo yezihlobo zabo, ukwenza umkhuba wokubhapathizwa, ukushada, ukucela iseluleko futhi nje ukuba eduze kukaSomandla. Inkolo yama-Orthodox, ngokungafani nobuSulumane, ayifaki imingcele eqinile kwabesifazane ekuvakasheni isonto leNkosi, kodwa ikhuthaza noma kunjalo ukugwema ukuvakashela isonto ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlelwa kwemikhuba yama-Orthodox ngamaKhristu kufanele kwenzeke ngokucabangela izinsuku zomjikelezo wabesifazane.
Kungenzeka yini futhi kungani ungakwazi ukuya esontweni ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini? - izimpendulo zale mibuzo zivela emvelaphi nasezinkolelweni zekholo lobu-Orthodox futhi zihlobene "nokungcoliswa" ngokomzimba kowesifazane ngalesi sikhathi.
Kungani owesifazane engakwazi ukuya esontweni uma esenesikhathi sokuya esikhathini?
IThestamente Elidala liyakwenqabela ukuba khona kwesonto kulezi zimo ezilandelayo: uchoko, ukuphuma kwegazi, spermatozoa, isikhathi sokubeletha (izinsuku ezingu-40 zokubeletha umfana nezinsuku ezingu-80 uma ebeletha intombazane, Lev 12), ukuphuma kwamabhinqa (inyanga zonke kanye nezifo), othinta umzimba okhulayo isidumbu). Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi lezi zibonakaliso zihlobene ngokuqondile nesono, nakuba zingekho izoni ngokwabo.
Kodwa, njengoba ukuhlanzeka kokuziphatha kwamakholwa kubalulekile enkolweni, uhlu lwezinqatshelwe ekubhalisweni kweTestamente Elisha kwabuyiselwa futhi kwashiywa imingcele emibili yokuvakashela ithempeli:
- abesifazane emva kokubeletha (kuze kube yizinsuku ezingama-40, ngesikhathi sokukhishwa kwe-postpartum);
- abesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhishwa kwenyanga.
Izizathu zokucabangela ukuthi kungani lezi zikhathi owesifazane angaba "ongcolile" ngandlela-thile.
Okokuqala, isizathu sihlanzekile kuphela. Phela, into evelele yalezi zimfihlo zihlotshaniswa nokuvuza kwegazi kusukela emgqeni wokuzala. Ngakho kwakuhlale njalo, futhi ngezikhathi zokuntuleka kokuhlanzeka okuhlanzekile kusho ukuphuma. Ithempeli ayinakukwazi ukuchitha igazi. Uma unamathela kule ncazelo, namuhla, usebenzisa amathoni noma ama-gaskets, ungavimbela ukuvela kwesigameko esinjalo, futhi uvakashele isonto.
Okwesibili, isizathu sokuthi "ukungcola" kuchazwa ukuthi lokhu kukhishwa kowesifazane kuhlotshaniswa nokwenqatshwa kwe-endometrium ngenxa yokulethwa (okusho ngokuqondile ukuqala kwesono sangempela somntwana owazalwa), noma ukuhlanzwa ngokuphathelene nokufa kweqanda nokukhululwa kanye negazi.
Kungenzeka yini ukuya esontweni ngokuya esikhathini?
Ngokuya kombono we-abbot wesonto elithile ngenxa yokuvinjelwa, isinqumo senziwa embuzweni othi "Ngingaya endlini ethempelini phakathi nesikhathi?". Kukhona labo abefundisi abangaboni lutho olungalungile ngokuvakashela owesifazane phakathi nezinsuku ezibucayi zesonto, futhi kukhona abanye abahlukunyezwayo ngalokhu.
Eqinisweni, ebonakala ngesikhathi sokukhishwa kwe-postpartum noma ngenyanga, owesifazane ngeke enze noma yisiphi isono. Phela, ngoba uNkulunkulu, okokuqala, ukungcola kwangaphakathi komuntu, imicabango yakhe nezenzo zakhe kubalulekile.
Ngingaya esontweni ngesikhatsi sami?
Kuze kube manje, cishe bonke abapristi baya esinqumweni salolu daba ukuya esontweni futhi bathandaze kowesifazane onoketshezi lwegazi, kodwa kufanele ubalekele ekuhlanganyeleni emasikweni enkolo (ukuvuma, ukuhlangana, ukubhapathizwa, ukubhapathizwa, njll) nokuthinta kuya emathempelini.