Kwenzeka ukuthi umbhangqwana osemusha unendodakazi enhle, kanti intombi engashadile enqabe ukuba unkulunkulukazi.
Ake siqonde, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini intombazane engashadile ukuba ibhapathize intombazane yokuqala nokuthi ngabe kungaba nemiphumela emibi emva kwalesi senzakalo.
Izinkolelo-ze ekuphileni kwethu
Kunenkolelo yokuthi uma abantu abangashadile bezungezile intombazane yokuqala, bayomnika injabulo yabo yesifazane futhi bangalokothi bashade. Ubhapathizo ngumthetho wesonto, ngakho-ke, masibuze ukucaciswa kombuzo wokuthi kungani kungenakwenzeka ukubhapathiza intombazane yokuqala intombazane engashadile, kubafundisi bebandla kanye nebhayibheli. Obaba Ongcwele bahlale bephendula impendulo elula futhi engaqondakali kulokhu: konke lokhu kuyizinkolelo-ze nobuwula. I-christening iyisenzo esilungile nesenza kahle, uma ubhapathiziwe futhi usufike ngosuku lweshumi nantathu lokuzalwa, ngeke kube khona. Kodwa inkolelo-ze ingenye yezono zabo zesonto, okushiwo yiBhayibheli: "Indlebe yokuzwa makungabi yize, ubufakazi obungalungile makungabi bubi" (Eksodusi XXIII, 1). Ngakho-ke, ukubhapathiza intombazane yokuqala intombazane engashadile ingakwazi, kodwa ukulahlwa kwama-christenings ngokuvumelana namathoni eBhayibheli kuyisono esikhulu.
Imicabango yethu yizinto ezibonakalayo
Kulesi simo, kunesinye isici esithakazelisayo: yonke imicabango yethu yizinto ezibonakalayo. Inkolelo-ze, mhlawumbe, kunzima ukuyibiza, kodwa inkolelo iphelele. Ngakho-ke, uma unqume ukukristana intombazane yokuqala, kufanele uyenze ngemicabango emihle nemicabango ecacile mayelana nekusasa lakho nekusasa lomzukulu wakho.
Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka yini ukubhapathiza intombazane yokuqala kumuntu ongashadile, ukuba anqume wena kuphela. Isonto liyakwamukela futhi lamukele umsebenzi onjalo, kodwa uma usaqhubeka nokungabaza, noma wesaba, unqabe kangcono. Ngempela , ubhapathizo luyisenzakalo esijabulisayo, lapho kungenakho ukwesaba nokwesaba.