Kusukela ebuntwaneni sitshelwa ukuthi siziphathe kanjani, esikoleni izinto eziyisisekelo zokuziphatha emphakathini zizinikele ezifundweni, kuzo zonke lezi zindawo zokukhukhulwa, into eyodwa ikhunjulwa ngokuqinile: "umuntu kumele aphile ngemithetho." Yilabo kuphela abasungula le mithetho nokuthi kungani kudingeka bahambisane, akekho ozokutshela ngesizathu esithile engasheshi. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi ukuba umuntu omdala, sisemgwaqweni, akekho olandela ukuziphatha, futhi singakhohlwa yonke imithetho ... noma cha?
Kusho ukuthini ukuphila ngemithetho?
Zama ukukhumbula imithetho ebalulekile efundiswa ebuntwaneni, ngokuqinisekile into efana nokuthi "hhayi ukucasula abancane" kanye "nomese ngakwesokunene, ifom - ngakwesobunxele" izofika engqondweni. Kodwa ukuze ucacise umugqa ocacile wokuziphatha, lokhu kusobala ukuthi akwanele. Ngakho-ke, kusho ukuthini ukuphila ngemithetho - ukubingelela bonke omakhelwane, ukukhumbula imiyalo yeBhayibheli noma ukuzama ukuqhubeka, ukuzama ukukhumbula yonke imiyalelo yabazali? Okubi kakhulu ukuthi akukho impendulo engafanele kulo mbuzo, futhi wonke umuntu kuzodingeka athole indlela yakhe, ngakho-ke.
Zama ukucabanga umuntu okholelwa ukuthi ukuphila ngemithetho, kusho ukuhambisana nazo zonke izincomo ezikhona ezilandela zonke izimpawu nezindinganiso zokuziphatha. Isithombe sinezinhlanzi, akunjalo? Ngokusobala, ezinye izindinganiso kuzodingeka zishiywe, ukuze zingabanjwanga. Futhi i-maximalism esemusha ehamba emilanjeni ihlehlisa konke okushiwo ukuthi indoda ephila ngemithetho ayiyona nje into ehlabayo engathandekayo, kodwa ayikwazi ukufeza impumelelo kumsebenzi wakhe noma empilweni yakhe. Ngakho-ke ungawashiya ngokuphelele, futhi uphile njengoba ufuna?
Imicabango efanayo ifinyelela engqondweni yomuntu wonke, futhi abaningi bazama ngempela ukuyeka noma yikuphi ukuvimbela, kodwa emva kwesikhathi bayabona ukuthi ezimweni ezifanayo benza ngendlela efanayo, okungukuthi, bakhela umzila othile wokuziphatha. Kuvela ukuthi udinga ukuphila ngemithetho, kodwa yilokho owazakhele khona. Akuzifaki ukuba zihlukile, izimiso zokuphila eziningi kakhulu zizovame kakhulu. Akuwona ukuqala okubalulekile lapha, kodwa ukuzimela kokuzikhethela kulabo noma eminye imithetho. Ngenxa yokuthi labo abavela ngaphandle, bazobonwa njengemiyalo ebekiwe, engasekelwa izincazelo ezizwakalayo noma okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Ngakho-ke, ungesabi ukufuna imithetho yakho yokuphila, noma ngabe uqale ukukhohlwa ngawo wonke imibono ehloniphekile.