Umuntu kunoma yikuphi ubudala unelungelo lokuzibulala, kodwa kungani lokhu kwenzeka, yisiphi isizathu salokhu kuziphatha? Ezweni lanamuhla, ngakho-ke kunezimo eziningi ezingabangela ukufa komuntu: ukushayisana kwezokuthutha kanye nomoya, ubuphekula, izinga eliphezulu lobugebengu, izenzakalo zemvelo, njll, ngakho-ke udinga ukuqeda ukuzibulala.
Izimbangela zesibindi sokuzibulala
Bonke abantu bangabantu ngabanye kanye nokuzibhubhisa kuboniswa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kumuntu othile, lokhu kwenzeka ngokushesha kakhulu - ukuzibulala , kanti abanye bachitha ukuphila kwabo iminyaka eminingi, isibonelo, ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa, utshwala, ukuhaha, ukubhema, njll. Ngokuvamile, umuntu akaqapheli inkinga yakhe, ngakho ngeke kube khona ukubhekana nayo yedwa. Lezi zindlela zenziwe kusukela ebuntwaneni, futhi zihlotshaniswa nezinhlobonhlobo zokuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo.
Izinhlobo zokuziphatha eziholela ekuzibhubhiseni
Ukuziphatha okuluthayo
Kuboniswa ukuthi umuntu ufuna ukubalekela empeleni. Ngenxa yalokhu, uthatha izinto ezihlukahlukene noma ulungisa izinto nezinto ezihambisana nokubonakala kwemizwelo. Ukwamukelwa kwezinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zezinto kubangelwa ukunamathiswa futhi ngemuva kwalokho balawula impilo yomuntu, okwenza ukuba angabi nasizimele futhi ecindezelekile. Lokhu kuziphatha kubangela: ukusetshenziswa kotshwala, izidakamizwa, ukugembula, ukudla ngokweqile , ukuziphatha okubi, njll.
Lokhu kuziphatha kubonakala kaningi uma kunezinkinga endleleni yokuphila komuntu, isibonelo, ukufa komuntu othandekayo, ukuxoshwa, njll.
Abantu abanjalo bahlukile:
- babe nezinkinga ezinkulu ekuphileni kwansuku zonke;
- babe nezinkinga eziphansi;
- ukukhuluma okungamanga;
- usolwa abanye kuzo zonke izinkinga;
- ezinye izinkinga ezinkulu kakhulu nge-psyche.
Into esemqoka ngesikhathi sokubona ukuthi kukhona izinkinga nabathandekayo futhi ufune usizo.
Ukuziphatha okungahambisani nomphakathi
Kuboniswa ukuthi umuntu wenza izenzo eziphikisana nokuziphatha, ukuziphatha, umthetho, njll. Abantu abadala abanenkinga enjalo abazizwa bengenomthwalo wemfanelo, bangabazali ababi, abasebenzi, abangane nabalingani. Umuntu akazizwa ezisola ngoba nje akhathaleli. Lokhu kuhambisana kuhambisana nokucindezela, ukuhlukunyezwa, njll. Kunezinkinga ezinjalo ebuntwaneni ngenxa yemindeni engaphelele, ukunakekelwa okwanele nemfundo.
Ukuzibulala
Kuboniswa ukuthi umuntu ufuna ukuzibulala. Kunezinhlobo eziningana:
- i-anemic - ebangelwa izinhlekelele zomuntu siqu, isibonelo, ukufa komuntu othandekayo;
- ukuguqula - kwenziwa ngenzuzo ethile, isibonelo, ukuze kungabi umthwalo kwabanye;
- i-egoistic - ibangelwa hhayi umbono wezenhlalo nezindinganiso zomphakathi.
Nsuku zonke iphesenti yokuzibulala phakathi kwezingane ezingaboni ukuthi zenzani ukwanda. Izimbangela ezingenzeka ukuthi ziholele ezenzweni ezinjalo:
- izinkinga emndenini;
- ukugula ngengqondo;
- ukudumazeka okudabukisayo;
- izinkinga ngotshwala nezidakamizwa;
- uzizwa ungenalutho emphakathini;
- ukungabi nasizo;
- ukuzethemba okuphansi, njll.
Ukuze ungalokothi ulahlekelwe othandekayo, unake futhi unakekele.
Ukuziphatha ngokuvumelana
Kuboniswa ukuthi umuntu akanalo umbono wakhe, ngakho-ke uyazivumelanisa nombono wabantu abanamandla. Abantu abanjalo abazi lutho ngobuntu babo, baphila ngemigomo yomphakathi. Ama-Conformists abizwa ngokuthi "amapopi", alawulwa ngabanye. Abantu abanjalo bakholelwa ukuthi imibono yabo ayilungile, ngakho-ke banikeza isiphetho sabo ezandleni zabanye.
Ukuqeda zonke lezi zinkinga, umuntu udinga ukwesekwa kwezihlobo nezihlobo, kanye nosizo lwabachwepheshe. Kunzima ukuqeda ukuthembela okunjalo, kodwa kungenzeka.