Uma umuntu engaboni imizwa, kungenzeka ukuthi ufile noma ugula kakhulu. Ukubaluleka kokuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okunjalo kukhulu kakhulu kangangokuthi ngisho nokuntula kwabo kungabangela imiphumela embi. Lesi simo kuthiwa ukuhlushwa ngokomzwelo, isinxephezelo sabantu abadala, kanye nezingane ngokuvamile kuba yisikhathi sokuvakashela isazi sengqondo sengqondo noma ngisho nesazi sezifo zengqondo, njengoba kungenakwenzeka ukuphuma kule simo ngokuzimela.
Ukulahlwa ngokomzwelo
Lona kanye igama elithi "ukungabikho" lingaqondakali, lingashintshwa ngokuthi "ukuhlwithwa, ukunganaki, ukubhujiswa", kodwa kuvame ukusetshenziswa elisetshenziselwa "ukuvinjelwa". Ngakho, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo akunakwenzeka ukuthola izinto ezidingekayo.
Izizathu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo zihlukile: ezinganeni lokhu ngokuvamile imfundo engafanele (ukufakazela izidingo zabo kwengane, hhayi ukutadisha umhlaba wakhe), ukungahlali komzali noma umndeni ongaphelele; kubantu abadala - ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, umsebenzi, ukushaqeka okukhulu noma uchungechunge lwamaphuzu amancane kodwa omude.
Imiphumela yemikhawulo enjalo nayo iyamangaza yizo ezihlukahlukene. Uma lokhu kwenzeka kumntanakho, khona-ke lilahlekelwa umsebenzi walo, inzalo kulokho okwenzekayo, okuzophazamisa ukuthuthukiswa kwayo. Kubuye kube nomthelela ekwakhiweni kwezinkimbinkimbi , izifo ze- psychosomatic kanye nezifo zengqondo. Ukwehliswa ngokomzwelo kubantu abadala kungabangela ukukhathazeka okunganele, ukucindezeleka, ukulahlekelwa ukholo ngamandla akho. Yiqiniso, abantu abadala bangalungisa ukuziphatha kwabo, ngakho-ke ngaso sonke isikhathi ukungabi nemizwelo ngokushesha kuthinta ukuziphatha. Abanye abantu abaphikisanayo ngeke baphendule isikhathi eside, bezama ukuthola isinxephezelo sokuhlushwa ngokomzwelo, kodwa lokhu kuzoba nje ukuhlushwa kwezinkinga ezinkulu esikhathini esizayo.
Imiphumela yokuncishiswa
Gcwalisa ukuntuleka kwemizwelo ngezindlela ezahlukene:
- izingane zifuna ukunakwa kontanga noma abanye abadala;
- bahlale bengasebenzi noma behlala bexhala, bekhetha ukufuna induduzo ezincwadini noma ukucabanga kwabo.
Emikhakheni yezinkokhelo ezindala ngaphezulu:
- isifiso sokwandisa umbuthano wakho womphakathi;
- impilo yokuziphatha ngokocansi;
- sesha okuvezwa okusha ngaphansi kwethonya lezidakamizwa ze-psychotropic;
- izinto zokuzilibazisa.
Yiqiniso, akekho oye wakhansela izincwadi, umculo kanye nezinto zokufakelwa, ekuqaleni abantu abaningi bathola induduzo kubo, kepha uma ukulamba ngokomzwelo kukhula, ngaso sonke isikhathi umthelela udinga amandla amakhulu, ngakho-ke izindlela zihamba kancane.
Ngakho-ke, ubuke futhi wena nabathandekayo bakho, ungawaphuli yini umfudumalo wabo nothando ? Futhi uma uhlupheka, funa ufune ngokushesha isizathu sokuba ungabi isivakashi esivamile kuma-pharmacy kanye nodokotela abaqaphele bephrofayela encane.