Izazi zengqondo azikhathali ukuphinda: "Imicabango yomuntu yizinto ezibonakalayo." Futhi uma ucabanga ngokubi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ungaba nzima kakhulu ukuba khona kwakho. Kodwa ukuze ufunde indlela yokuphatha impilo elula futhi ubone kuwo izici eziningi ezinhle, akulula kakhulu. Nakuba lo msebenzi kungenzeka kunabo bonke abantu.
Isiqubulo sami - bukeka umhlaba lula!
Kodwa okokuqala, udinga ukuchaza imingcele ye "intethelelo." Kusho ukuthini "ukubheka impilo ngendlela elula"? Ukuze ube yi-nihilist? Hamba uye endaweni yemifino, ehlanganisa ukuwanelisa izidingo ezilula? Ukuyeka ukulandela ukulandela ukuphazanyiswa ukuziphatha ngendlela efanele yokuziphatha nokuziphatha kanye nokuhamba kuphela ngezikhathi ngezifiso ? Kodwa okunye okudlulele - isenzakalo sezinkathazo ezintsha, ukucindezeleka kanye nokucabangela okudabukisayo ngokungabi nalutho komuntu siqu .
Kulula ukuhlala - kusho usuku ngalunye ukuthola kuyo isizathu sokujabula, okuzokwenza kube namandla okubhekana nokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Noma yikuphi inkinga ithola ukungathí sina ngokwezinga thina ngokwethu esikunike lona. Kodwa iningi lazo, elikwazi ukuletha ukwesaba ngenxa yethonya lomzuzwana womzwelo, ngokuvamile, ngokuvamile "lichithe" ngokwabo. Ngakho-ke, ukuqala ukuphila kulula, kudingeka ufunde ukuphatha imizwelo yakho nemicabango yakho.
Indlela yokufunda ukuphatha impilo lula?
Izazi zengqondo zeluleka isisombululo senkinga, ukuthi ungaqala kanjani lula ukuphatha impilo, ukuhlanganisa nokuqonda amakhono wokucabanga okuhle. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele:
- Yeka ukukhononda, uzama ukuphakamisa ukuzwelana. Futhi bonke abantu abazungezile bathi usuke wenza kahle, futhi, ekugcineni, kuzoba yiqiniso.
- Yeka ukuzimela wena-yebo, unamaphutha, ngoba akekho ophelele, kodwa akufanelekile ukuhlala kuwo. Gxila ezintweni zakho ezifanele, zivame ukuzidumisa, ngisho nangokwengqondo.
- Khipha izikhalazo, ungazigcini okubi, ungenzi izinhlelo zokuziphindiselela.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi ulale ngokwanele, thola iseluleko esiwusizo esivela eScarlett O'Hara esidumile: "Ngizocabanga ngakho kusasa" futhi ukhumbule isaga saseRussia: "ekuseni ubusuku bodaka." Ukuhlehlisa isikhathi sokuxazulula izinkinga zomhlaba jikelele, futhi ngokuqinisekile iningi labo lizolahlekelwa ukuhambisana ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi ube nokuphumula okuhlukahlukene, unciphisa umkhuba wokuphumula kuphela embhedeni: kaningi ukuphuma emvelweni, hamba ukuhamba, uya kuma-movie, uya embukisweni, uye emihlanganweni yomphakathi, uhlanganyele nezingane.