Inombolo enkulu yezingxabano nokungavumelani - kuyindlela enjalo phakathi kwamamama okwenza lokho kube lula, kodwa kusukela kulokhu kungabalulekile, njengokubamba. Abanye bayathukuthela ukuthi ingane ayiphuzi i-pacifier, kanti abanye bayakujabulela ukungethuli ingane. Ubani olungile? Futhi indlela yokujwayela ingane ibe yindlala, uma kukhona isidingo esiphuthumayo salokhu? Sizozama ukuphendula yonke imibuzo futhi siyiqonde isimo.
Ingabe ingane idinga i-dummy yomntwana?
Abaphikisi bama-pacifiers namuhla bahlangene kuzo zonke izinyathelo. Ngisho nasesibhedlela, omama abasha ababuza umbuzo ukuthi ingane ingaba nengane yomntwana, ubhekane nezinsongo zezingane eziphikelela ukuthi ukunikeza ingane ingono ayinqatshelwe. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo lapho kungenakwenzeka khona ukuhlukanisa nalesi senzo esihle sabantu. Isibonelo:
- Imali ende yokuhamba;
- elinde ukuphenduka kwabo esibhedlela nakwezinye izikhungo;
- bethenga, lokho kumama kungenakugwemeka;
- ukugqoka izingubo ezintsha kumntwana;
- noma yikuphi ukuhamba nokuhamba.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvamile ingono ingukusindiswa kwangempela phakathi nemidlalo ebhokisini le-sandbox, lapho umntwana eqhubeka evuselela "kaku" emhlabathini. Futhi lokho akusho ukuthi umsebenzi omkhulu kangaka wonyaka oneminyaka eyodwa njengoba uncelisayo. Kuze kube yiminyaka eyodwa nesigamu, abantwana bangena emlonyeni wabo wonke amanga amabi, beqala ngamathoyizi bese bephela ngezandla zabo. Njengoba umkhuba ubonisiwe, kulula kakhulu ukuncelisa ingane esuka ku-pacifier kunokusondeza umunwe wakho. Uma usakungabaza ukuthi ukunikeza ingane i-pacifier, uma kudingekile, vumela ukuphikisana okuyinhloko ukuthi kungukuhlanzeka, kusindisa ngesikhathi sokuvuswa komntanami kaningi, futhi kushukumise umsebenzi wamathumbu futhi kusindise ekubunjweni kwegesi.
Indlela yokufundisa ingane ku-dummy?
Lapho sibhekene nenkinga yokubaluleka kwezingono, siphenduka enkingeni yesibili. Iqukethe ukuthi ingane ayithathi i-pacifier. Lokhu kungenzeka ngezizathu eziningana:
- Izinto ezivela kulo akufanelekile kumntwana;
- lincane kakhulu noma likhulu kakhulu kwengane;
- ingane ayifani nokuma kwedummy.
Ukukhetha i-pacifier yengane, funda ngokucophelela ulwazi olukuphakeji. Kunezintathu eziyisisekelo eziyisisekelo ze-pacifiers: kusuka ku-0, kusukela ku-3 nasezinyangeni ezingu-6. Izinto ezisetshenziswayo zinezinhlobo ezimbili: abicah kanye ne-latex. Ukuma kwe-ingono kuhlukile futhi kudalwa ngokuphathelene nezinhloso ezehlukene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezinye izinkohliso - ucabanga ukuthi ungafundisa kanjani umntwana osanda kuzalwa, ungakhohlwa ngesisindo azalwa ngaso. "Bogatyri" ngokushesha uphonsa ingono yesayizi yokuqala, i-tk. uzoba mncane kubo. Kodwa kukhona labo abaphambene nalokho okwehlukile. Ngamanye amazwi, zilungiselele ukuthi kufanele uzame cishe ama-nipples ayishumi ngaphambi kokuthola okuthandwa ngu-chad.
Ake sithi ekugcineni wenze ukukhetha kwakho. Ihlala isinqumo sokunikeza ingane i-pacifier nendlela yokusingatha kahle, ukuze umntwana ayithande. Kulokhu sikweluleka ukuba ulalele amathiphu alandelayo:
- ngaphambi kokusetshenziswa kokuqala futhi ngaphambi kokusebenzisa ngamunye ubilise i-pacifier imizuzu engu-2-3;
- shintsha ama-dummies njalo emavikini angu-4-6 okusetshenziswa;
- Ungasebenzisi izibhande nezinsimbi zenjoloba entanyeni yakho ukugqoka i-pacifier. Kungcono uthole icala elikhethekile;
- akukho cala ungagcini i-ingono ibe mnandi (isiraphu, ushukela, uju) ukuze ungayiphanga. Lokhu kungaholela ezinganeni ze-diathesis, i-caries, kanye nokuxhomeka kokunambitheka;
- Okufanayo kukhonta izinsipho ngaphambi kokuzinikeza ingane. Khumbula ukuthi umquba wakho uqukethe inani elikhulu lama-bacteria ayingozi kumntwana;
- ukujwayela ingane ukuba ivuseleleke kungenzeka ukuthi uyinike ngemuva kokudla. Uma ubeka lubisi ngobisi bakho, umntwana ngeke aqaphele ukufaka endaweni futhi alale ne-pacifier. Khumbula ukuthi ngesikhathi sokulala, i-pacifier ingcono kakhulu isuswe emlonyeni. Noma ungasebenzisa izingono zobusuku ezikhethekile;
- Ungasebenzisi kabi ama-pacifiers wakho. Banike kuphela njengesisetshenziswa sokugcina, lapho kudingekile ukuba ukwanelise ukucubungula kwengane;
- gcina ama-dummies ambalwa endlini. Inombolo enhle cishe cishe emihlanu. Konke kufanele kube inzalo futhi igcinwe ezimweni ezikhethekile.
Akunzima ukufundisa ingane kumuntu ohamba phambili. Kodwa uma, naphezu kwemizamo yakho, ngesizathu esithile ingane iphika ngokujulile ukuyithatha - ujabule. Asikho isidingo sokuthi ukhulise ingane ekhulile kusuka ku-ingono yakho ethandekayo, eye yaba yindabuko. Futhi lokhu, kholwa mina, lo msebenzi unzima kakhulu kunokuba uthathe i-dummy uqobo.