Abesifazane abaningi bafuna umfanekiso wesifazane ocebile futhi ozimele ukuba abe unomphela kubo, kodwa ukuthi ungaphila futhi uphile impilo ophuphayo, udinga ukukhuluma ngokuningiliziwe.
Ungaba kanjani ocebile?
Kuba yimpumelelo kuyadingeka, okokuqala, ekuqapheliseni komuntu siqu. Futhi ukuze uthole impilo yokuphupha, ukugeza emcebeni nokunethezeka, udinga ukusebenza nsuku zonke ekuthuthukiseni imicabango yakho:
- Akwanele ukusho phambi kwesibuko: "Ngifuna ukuceba futhi ngiphumelele," kubalulekile ukufunda ukubona ukuchuma ezintweni eziningi ezikuzungezile, ngisho nasezinkingeni zobunzima bokuphila. Khumbula inkulumo edumile eyabhalwa abalobi baseMelika ababe bevikelekile ngokwezezimali ngenxa yezinto zabo zomhlaba siqu. "Uma impilo iphonsa ama-lemons kuwe, udale i-lemonade ngesibindi kubo." Yilokho okufihlakeleyo kwezimfihlo eziyinhloko zokuphila, okuye kwaphupha njalo. Ngakho-ke, zama ukubona kuphela ubuningi bezinto zonke. Unayo imali, kodwa inesimo sezinto ezincane. Imvuthuluka kuphela etafuleni lokudlela? - Cha, unokudla - imvuthuluka eminingi.
- Nquma ngesamba esithile osifunayo ngaso sonke isikhathi ekhadini lakho leplastiki. Uyazi ukuthi udinga kangakanani impilo egcwele? Bheka isholide segolide: cwangcisa inani elidlula imali engenayo njalo ngezikhathi ezingu-8-15.
- Indlela yokuba intombazane ecebile enebhajethi yomuntu ompofu? Impendulo ilula: funda ukubonga. Phawula izici ezinhle zokuphila. Ngakho-ke, awujabuli yini ukuthi indlu yakho igcwele isivunguvungu noma akufanele yini ukuthi "ngiyabonga" empilweni ukuthi labo obathandayo abasondelene nabo? Ngokuthuthukisa ukucabanga okuhle, uvumela impumelelo empilweni yakho.
- Encwadini yakhe ethi "Think and Grow Rich", ekhuluma ngokuheha ukuhamba kwemali, iNapoleon Hill itusa kakhulu. ukwenza izitatimende ezithinta imali kuwe,
ziphindaphinda njalo, isibonelo, ekuseni noma ngaphambi kokulala. - Zama ngesithombe somfazi ovikelekile ngokwezimali. Vala amehlo akho, cabanga ukuthi iphupho lakho ligcwaliseke kanjani. Zizwa injabulo yokuthola. Ufuna imoto entsha? Bese ubona ngesibindi ukuthi ungaphila ngemuva kwesondo, uzizwe iphunga lekhishi elisha, uhlezi ukhululekile. Ukuzethula kulowo ofuna ukusibona emva kwesikhashana, unike lesi sibonisi nsuku zonke cishe imizuzu engu-15.
- Ukuletha isisusa , ukulawula imicabango yakho siqu nokuyeka ukuzithuthukisa, uyakwazi ukufeza okufunayo.