Inkinga yokuphuza utshwala komntwana inzima kakhulu kuyo yonke indawo ye-post-Soviet space. Isikhathi eside, iziphathimandla zizama ukulwa nazo zonke izindlela. Vimbela ukuthengiswa kotshwala ebusuku, ukuvimbela ukukhangisa, ukuvimbela ukuphuza utshwala ezindaweni zomphakathi. Zonke lezi zinyathelo zilula kancane kancane, hhayi ukuxazulula inkinga yenkinga. Namuhla, izingane, ngomzamo wokulingisa abantu abadala futhi zifana nabo, zidonsa ibhodlela kusukela eminyakeni engu-10-12. Ngaphambili, utshwala baqala ukuthakazelisa abantu abasha, kusukela eminyakeni yokufunda.
Izimbangela zokuphuza ngokweqile ingane
Kubonakala sengathi intsha iqoqa ingilazi yento eshisayo ezandleni zabo, ibheka sengathi ikhulile, iqinile futhi ihle kakhulu phakathi kweontanga. Abakwazanga ukubeka phambili kuqala futhi bakhethe abangane "abalungile". Ngakho-ke ngokuvamile bafika ezinkampanini ezimbi.
Ingane ethatha ibhodlela ezandleni zayo ingalawulwa yisifiso sokubalekela izinkinga, ukuzikhohlwa. Imizwa ebantwaneni idlala indima enkulu kakhulu. Khumbula wena kule minyaka. Zingaki izinkathazo ezenza ukuxabana nabazali bakhe? Futhi uthando lwangenakulinganiswa luze kube nini? Ngakho ingane yakho, mhlawumbe, ihlangabezana nakho okuhlangenwe nakho okunamandla. Ayikwazi ukuxazulula le nkinga, noma ukuxoxa ngayo nomunye umuntu, udonsela ophuzweni. Ngokombono wakhe, lokhu kuyindlela enhle yokukhohlwa ukuthi izwe aliphelele.
Ukuphoqa ingane ukuthenga utshwala kungaba nemali eningi mahhala ephaketheni lakhe. Ngakho-ke, lawula ngokuqinile izindleko zengane yakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi imali ekhishwa ukudla kwasemini ayichithwanga kusihlwa ebhodini.
Esinye isizathu singaba utshwala kubazali. Okokuqala, lokhu yisibonelo. Uma indodana noma indodakazi ekhulayo ibona ukuthi umama, noma ubaba, noma asebenza nsuku zonke ebhodleleni, uzoba nesimo sengqondo sokuthi lokhu kuyindlela evamile yokuziphatha. Esikhathini esizayo, uzokwenza ngendlela efanayo, elandele isibonelo esiphezulu kuye. Okwesibili, ingane ingaba nomlutha ngisho nasesibelethweni uma isebenzisa utshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngemuva kokubeletha, umzimba womntwana uzocela umthamo ojwayelekile ophuza utshwala. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, kukhona ngisho nesifo sokuhoxiswa.
Izici zokudakwa ngokweqile kwezingane
Isici esiyinhloko sokuphuza ngokweqile ingane ukuthi ikhula ngokushesha kakhulu kunabantu abadala. Ngisho ngezikhathi ezithile usebenzisa iziphuzo eziphuza utshwala, ingane isheshe ibe umlutha. Ikakhulukazi evamile ekuphuzeni utshwala kwezingane. Ubhiya lubonakala njengesiphuzo sokuphuza utshwala esingenabungozi, kodwa kubonakala nje. Eqinisweni, umonakalo ovela kuye awuncane. Futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi uphuza kaningi, ungasho ngokuphepha ukuthi lokhu kungenye yeziphuzo eziyingozi kakhulu.
Imiphumela ye-alcohol alcoholism
Utshwala ukucindezeleka okukhulu komzimba wengane. Kubangela ukuphazanyiswa kwezinhlelo zokugaya ukudla nezinzwa. Futhi ezimweni ezimbi zenza izinguquko ezingenakushintshwa esibindi (cirrhosis) kanye nobuchopho (ukucindezeleka ngokweqile).
Ukwelashwa kokudakwa ngokweqile kubantwana esibhedlela. Ngenxa yobusha, akunakwenzeka ukusebenzisa zonke izidakamizwa. Ngakho-ke, izindlela zokuvimbela isifo zisetshenziswa.
Ukuvimbela ukuphuza ngokweqile kwengane
Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuvimbela ubuhlobo obuseduze, obunethemba nabazali. Uma ingane yakho ingabelana ngolwazi nganoma yiluphi ulwazi ngaphandle kokwesaba, tshela ngezinkinga zakhe kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe, ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuthi uyomkhumbula ngaphandle kokulawula. Futhi ungamchazela "okuhle nokubi".