Ukukhipha imikhuba emibi akulula, ikakhulukazi uma owesifazane eyeka ukubhema ngokushesha, ngoba imiphumela yempilo yakhe ingase ibe yinto enhle kulokhu.
Ukuyeka ukubhema - imiphumela yabesifazane ngezinyanga
Ngakho-ke, uma intombazane ishiya umkhuba omubi ngokungazelelwe, kufanele ilungele imiphumela enjalo:
- Ngenyanga yokuqala ngemuva kokuba owesifazane ethathe isinqumo sokuyeka ukubhema, imiphumela yezempilo kuyoba ukuthi isisindo sakhe singase sikhule ngendlela ephawulekayo. Yiqiniso, kukhona ukungafani okujabulisayo kulo mthetho, ngoba abanye bamane balahlekelwe ngokuphelele ukudla kwabo, futhi akugcini nje ukuthi bathole amafutha, kodwa futhi banciphisa umzimba. Kodwa, kaningi kunalokho, intombazane iqala ukuthatha ukucindezeleka (ngoba ukuqeda imikhuba emibi akuyona into kodwa ukucindezeleka) futhi lokhu kuholela ekwandeni kwesisindo somzimba. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini ungase uphazamiseke, ukubambezeleka kwenzeke noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, izinyanga zonke zifika ngaphambili. Konke kuhlobene nokucindezeleka okufanayo okwenza ushintsho olufanayo emzimbeni. Omunye umphumela omubi ukuvela kokulala ukulala noma ukubuthwa okukhulu, ukunciphisa ukuhlushwa, ukwanda kokukhathazeka. Iphutha liyinto efanayo yokucindezeleka.
- Ngenyanga yesibili, isisindo singakwazi ukuqhubeka sikhula, kodwa sekukhona ithuba lokuyeka le nqubo uma uqala ukulawula ukudla kwakho. Okunye ukubonakaliswa okungalungile kuleli phuzu kufanele kube khona kakade, uma kwenzeka lokhu kungenzeki, qiniseka ukubona udokotela, mhlawumbe udinga usizo lwakhe.
Ngokufingqa ngokufushane, kungaphawulwa ukuthi uma uyeka ukubhema, umphumela oyingozi kakhulu osongela ukucindezeleka. Ungayilahla, ugcine isikhathi sokulangala ugwayi kulula, ngakho-ke ungaba nobuqili ukuphendukela kumuntu onguchwepheshe onokukhetha ukuthi uzongena kanjani, ngakho amathuba okuphumelela azokhula kuphela.