Cishe wonke umuntu unezinhlobo ezithile eziyinkimbinkimbi, abaningi banokwesaba okungazivumeli ukuba baphile ngokujwayelekile, kodwa ngenxa yomqondo wokuzibaluleka. Futhi okubi kakhulu ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukuqaphela le nkinga, okungajwayelekile ukuthi ngubani owaziyo ukuba khona kwayo. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu uchitha amandla amaningi ekuhlangenwe nakho okungenangqondo, okungaholela ezintweni eziwusizo kakhulu.
Umqondo wokuzibaluleka kokusebenza kwengqondo
Kumelwe ukuba uhlangane nabantu abakhathazekile kakhulu ngokubukeka kwabo emehlweni abanye. Bakulungele ukwenza noma yini ukubuka "inhlonipho". Eqinisweni, ukuzizwa ngokweqile kubonisa ukuziqhenya ngokweqile noma okudabukisayo, abantu baziphathe ngobugovu nangokuziqhenya, babonisa ukuziqhenya, bahlale bekhononda ngokuphila, bathukuthele ukuhluleka kwabo, abazi ukulawula izifiso zabo, njalo bathola ukulungiswa kobuthakathaka babo. Ngezinye izikhathi kungase kubonakale ukuthi ukuzizwa ngokweqile kusho ukuzethemba ngokweqile , kodwa ukuphathwa kwengqondo kusiqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu kuyinkinga ngokuphambene nalokho. Ukungavikeleki ngokwabo akuvumeli abantu ukuba baphendule ngokwanele okwenzekayo, bacabanga ukuthi umuntu uhlale efuna ukubacasula, aphule amalungelo abo, noma yimuphi umonakalo. Ngakho-ke, abantu abanjalo bangadikibala ezweni "elibi" noma bazame kanzima ukuziveza ngezindleko zabo.
Ukubhekana nomqondo wokuziqhenya akulula, kepha umphumela uzokhokha yonke imizamo. Kusukela ukungabikho kwalesi sizwe kuzosenza sikwazi ukubuka izinto ngokulingana, ukukhulula amandla amaningi ayevame ukulwa nezitha ezingqondweni. Futhi ukuze umuzwa wokubaluleka ukuzinikela masinyane, qaphela ngokwakho, hhayi kwabanye abantu, ulungise izenzo zakho, futhi ungatsheli ukuthi ungaphila kanjani.