Ukuzibandakanya kanye nokuzibandakanya yizimfanelo eziyinhloko ezikuvumela ukuba uqalise ngempumelelo ukuxhumana nabanye abantu futhi uphumelele emiphakathini ehlukahlukene kakhulu yokuphila. Ukuze ubone ukuthi uphumelela kanjani ekukhulumisaneni, ungadlulisa ukuhlolwa kwamakhono okuxhumana.
Ukuzihlola kwamakhono abalingani
Namuhla, kuningi ukuhlolwa kwengqondo kokuxhumana, okungatholakala kwi-intanethi kusizinda somphakathi. Inqubo yokuhlolwa kwamakhono okuxhumana ka-V. Ryakhovsky ethandwa kakhulu. Ihlukaniswe ngobukhulu bayo obukhulu, ukulula ukuhlolwa nokuchazwa okuningiliziwe kwemiphumela.
Ukuvivinya kwamakhono okuzibandakanya kulula: phendula umbuzo ngamunye ngempendulo yebo "yebo", "cha" noma "ngezinye izikhathi".
Ukuvivinya kokuxhumana: ukhiye
Ukuze unqume imiphumela yokuhlola, udinga ukwenza izibalo ezincane. Ngempendulo ngayinye ethi "yebo" - zibeke 2 amaphuzu, "ngezinye izikhathi" - iphuzu eli-1, "cha" - amaphuzu angu-0. Qinisekisa zonke izibalo.
Ukuvivinywa kokuxhumana: Imiphumela
Thola inamba ohlwini lokuphendula oluhambelana nomphumela wakho. Lena umphumela wakho wokuhlola kumakhono wokuxhumana we-Ryakhovsky.
- Amaphuzu angu-30 kuya kwangu-32. Unenkinga yokuxhumana, futhi amakhono okuxhumana akucaci iphuzu lakho eliqinile. Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlupheka ngalesi simo kunezinye. Uma kungumbuzo womsebenzi weqembu, unzima kakhulu. Zama ukuxhumana nomchwepheshe wezengqondo bese unquma izizathu zalesi sici esiphazamisayo.
- Amaphuzu angu-25 - 29. Usuvele ususwe, umuntu ozinzile. Ezimweni eziningi, isizungu akusona umthwalo kuwe. Abantu abanjalo, njengomthetho, banabangane abambalwa, futhi umsebenzi omusha noma isidingo sokuxhumana nabantu kukubeka esimweni esicindezelekile. Uma lokhu kubangele ukuthi unganeliseki ngokwakho, kufanele uzame ukujoyina iqembu labantu ngezintshisekelo zakho - emva kwakho konke, uma unesithakazelo ngempela, ukhulumisana kakhulu.
- Amaphoyinti angu-19 kuya kwangu-24. Uhlala ujabule futhi ukhulumisana, ikakhulukazi endaweni ejwayelekile. Kodwa nokho uvame ukukhombisa ukuqapha okukhulu ekusebenzelaneni nabantu abangabazi. Izingxabano ziyakunikela, futhi ukhetha ukudeka kunoma yiziphi izimo ezingqubuzanayo. Ngezinye izikhathi ungamangazi ngokungadingekile, kunokuba ungalimaza umuntu. Nokho, lokhu kungasuswa ngokuzithiba.
- Amaphuzu angu-14 kuya kwangu-18. Amakhono akho okuxhumana ajwayelekile. Uthanda ukulalela izindaba zabanye abantu, abanelukuluku, ababekezelela labo abakufani nawe, ukwazi ukukhuluma ngezinkinga ngokuthula futhi uthole izixazululo. Ukuhlangana nabantu abasha kuwe kulula, ngaphandle kokuhlazeka nokuhlangenwe nakho. Izinkampani ezimnandi ongazithandi, zingakucasula.
- Amaphuzu angu-9 - 13. Uyathandana kakhulu, uthanda ukwazi, zama ukuveza umbono wakho kunoma yisiphi isimo, kunokuba ngezinye izikhathi uphazamise abantu. Ngezikhathi ezithile, ungavula, kodwa, njengombuso, masinyane ushiye. Awunayo i-assiduity ethile. Mhlawumbe udinga ukufunda ukubekezela futhi
ikhono lokuliletha ekupheleni. Kodwa-ke, unamandla ngokwanele ukuthatha intando ibe yingqungquthela futhi unqobe ukungapheleli okuncane kokulingana. - Amaphuzu angu-4 - 8. Ukuzibandakanya yisici sakho sokushaya kakhulu. Uyazi konke nonke. Ungathandi "izingxoxo ezihlakaniphile" ezihlokweni ezingathí sina, kodwa kuzo zonke izingxoxo zansuku zonke empeleni zibambe iqhaza, ngisho noma zingakhathazeki. Awazi ukuthi izinto zenziwa kanjani, yini eyenza ukungathembeki kwabalingani bakho.
- Amaphoyinti angu-3 noma ngaphansi. Ungumuntu oxhumana naye ngokuziphatha kabi. Ungabhekiseli ngokungadingekile, uhlasele futhi uphazamise kuzo zonke izindaba. Yikuphi okukukhathazayo, kunokubangela isiphepho sentukuthelo kulabo abakuzungezile. Ujwayele ukwahlulela lokho ongazi ngakho. Ngenxa yakho, abathandekayo bakho bangase babe nokuphikisana okuhlukile. Kufanele ufune usizo kunokwazi kwengqondo uma ungakwazi ukuzilawula.