Ukunqunywa kobulili bomntwana ngokuma kwesisu kwakwenziwa okhokho bethu abade kakhulu amakhulu eminyaka. Le ndlela iye yagcinwa futhi isetshenziswa kakhulu namuhla. Ngokuqinisekile, wonke owesifazane okhulelwe uzizwa esiswini sakhe ukubukeka kwabadlula, abangane nabangane, futhi uvame ukuzwa iziphakamiso mayelana nobulili bomntwana ongakazalwa.
Isisu sisho ukuthini?
Iqiniso lokuthi isimo sesisu nesisu somntwana sithintana kakhulu, nogogo bethu abasakungabazeki. Kukholelwa ukuthi uma owesifazane enesisu esibuhlungu esifana nesimo "sekhukhamba", khona-ke uzoba nomfana. Isisu kulesi simo siqondiswe phambili, kusukela emuva komama ozayo kungenzeka ukuba ungacabangi isikhundla sayo esithakazelisayo. Uma isisu sowesifazane singacacile futhi siphezulu, khona-ke kuyoba nentombazane.
Ukunquma ubulili bomntwana phezu kwesisu sowesifazane okhulelwe, futhi, ukutholakala noma ukungabikho kwesikhumba kusize. Kucatshangwa ukuthi abafana bashiya isisindo somama wabo ngendlela ababengaphambi kokukhulelwa ngayo. Futhi amantombazane, futhi, awashiyi emlonyeni kaMama kanye nomkhondo - isisu sisatshalaliswa ngokulinganayo ezinhlangothini.
Odokotela basimanje babalulekile ngokwanele ukuze banqume ubulili bomntwana ngesimo sesisu. Ngokusho kocwaningo, isisu esiqhubekela phambili sibonisa ukuthi unina unezintambo ezincane futhi ingane ayikwazi ukuhlala kahle. Uma kwenzeka isikhumba sikhulelwe ngokubanzi, ingane yesikhathi esizayo inekamelo elikhulu kakhulu esibelethweni, ngakho isisu siyacaca futhi sisakazeka ezinhlangothini. Ngakho-ke, ngokusho kochwepheshe, akunakwenzeka ukwazi ubulili besisu.
Ukukholelwa noma ukungakholelwa izibonakaliso zabantu ukucacisa ubulili bomntwana yindaba yomuntu siqu owesifazane okhulelwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wonke umama wesikhathi esizayo uyazi ukuthi isikhathi sizofika futhi konke kuzokwenzeka - ukucacisa ukuthi ubulili bendodana buzobe bubele ngemva kokubeletha.