Abazali banamuhla basukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwengane yabo ethandekayo, baqala ukuzibuza ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye yokuyibhala. Abanye baqondiswa ukuthi ingane "ngeke ibe nesikhathi sokuphulukisa," abanye bafuna inzuzo yomqondo nomzimba. Bobabili balungile ngendlela yabo. Kodwa ukukhetha akuyona umsebenzi olula. Sizocabangela eyodwa kuphela yezinketho eziningi - ukuvocavoca kwezobuciko ezinganeni.
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Yiqiniso, lo mdlalo uhle kakhulu. Ngenxa yokuzivocavoca intombazane kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala ifunda ukuziveza emphakathini, ithola isimo esihle somzimba, umusa nokuningi, nokunye okuningi. Kodwa kunezinombolo eziningana ezifanele ukucatshangelwa, ukukhetha ukwenza indodakazi yakho ibe umqeqeshi wokuzivocavoca:
- Ukuqashwa kwezingane ekuzivocavoca kwezobuciko kuqala iminyaka emine. Kodwa-ke, iminyaka engcono kakhulu, ngokusho kochwepheshe, ineminyaka engama-6-7. Kuchazwe ngokumane - umqeqeshi kufanele abe ngumqeqeshi, hhayi umfana ozolihlisa ingane futhi amfundise. Omdala intombazane, ehlelekile kakhulu, eyala futhi eyazi yonke inqubo yokuqeqesha.
- Isikole sokuzivocavoca kwengqondo sezingane senzelwe ngendlela yokuthi cishe iminyaka engama-13-14 iqeqeshwa. Kuze kube manje le ntombazane izofunda ukuzwa umzimba wayo, umculo kanye nalokho okusetshenziselwa ukuzivocavoca. Futhi, indima ebalulekile idlala ngumusa wemvelo. Abazali bavame ukucabanga ngephutha ukuthi ingane yabo iyinkanyezi. Kodwa ngaphambi kwemiphumela yangempela, la ma ntombazane ayifinyeleleki. Ngaphandle kobuhle bemvelo, umntwana kufanele abe nokusebenzisana kahle, inkumbulo ebonakalayo nokukhuthazela.
- Ukunikeza ingane ngemidlalo enhle nenomusa, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kudinga izindleko eziningi. Izembatho zokuzivocavoca kwezobuciko zidlala indima enkulu. Iphaneli lejaji, elibhekiswe kwezobuciko, lizohlala likhula njalo futhi likhule kancane ngamantombazane, okuthi, nakuba enza lolu hlelo ngokuhlanzekile, babheke ukungathandeki.
Isikole sokuzivocavoca kwengqondo kwezingane namuhla sikhona cishe kuwo wonke amadolobha. Futhi uma ufuna ukunikeza ingane yakho lapho, khumbula ukuthi ngemuva kokuhle nobuhle ngumsebenzi omkhulu womzimba futhi usebenze ngokwakho.