Kuhlelo lokulahlekelwa isisindo kwaletha izinzuzo kuphela, akuzange kuthukuthele futhi akuphazamisi abantu abazungezile, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho ethile yokuziphatha, okuthiwa i-etiquette yokudla.
Inombolo yesigaba 1. Ungatsheli wonke umuntu ngokudla kwakho
Wonke umuntu unombono wakhe ngokulahlekelwa isisindo nokudla okunempilo, ngakho-ke akekho odingekayo ukutshela nokubeka ukudla kwakhe. Ngaphandle, Yebo, ubuzwa ngakho. Uma uhlezi e-cafe nabangani noma osebenza nabo, akufanele ubatshele ukuthi kuhle noma kubi kumuntu wabo, okudla ukuthi kungcono ukwenqaba, njll. Lokhu kuzolimaza kuphela ukudla kwakho kulabo abakuzungezile, futhi ngesikhathi esizayo bazocabangela ngokucophelela ukuthi ngabe bayakumema noma cha.
Umthetho wenombolo 2. Umlomo ukuvala
Uma uphinde ufunde ulwazi oluthe xaxa futhi manje ungatshela ngezinzuzo kanye nezilimaza yonke imikhiqizo emhlabeni, akudingeki uthathe isinyathelo. Inkulumo engenacala kunoma yimuphi intombazane ukuthi inhlanzi ithinte kabi isimo sesikhumba, izomenza acabange ukuthi lokhu kuyisici esibucayi ebusweni bakhe. Ngakho-ke, ukukhuluma nomuntu, kungcono ukukhetha esinye isihloko esijabulisa kakhulu wonke umuntu, futhi akusizi ngalutho ukukhuluma ngokudla okunempilo.
Isigaba 3. Ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo akufanele kuthinte ubungane
Amaqembu ahlukene namadili akuyona indawo engcono kakhulu yokuzilibazisa abantu abasendlini. Kusukela ezenzakalweni ezinjalo, ukuphumula ezikhathini eziningi akuzona zonke izidlo. Ukuza eholidini kanye nokudla akunakwenzeka, njengoba kuzo zonke izindlela kuzocasula inkosikazi kusihlwa. Uzozizwa engakhululekile kulokhu, njengoba omunye wezivakashi zakhe ezohlala elambile. Futhi ukuhlala etafuleni nge plate engenalutho kuzokukwenza ungakhululekile.
Kunezindlela eziningana zokuphuma kule nkinga. Yidla ekhaya, khona-ke emcimbini kunganciphisa imifino nezithelo. Futhi ungaletha izithelo nawe njengesipho, futhi wonke umama womndeni ohloniphekile uzokuzithoba etafuleni. Uma ufika itafula le-buffet, ungayi etafuleni, ukhulume nabantu eceleni, uhlanganyele emincintiswaneni, ucule ingoma, njll.
Umthetho wenombolo 6. Hlonipha umbono wabanye
Uma unquma ukulahlekelwa isisindo, shintsha ukudla kwakho, ukuzivocavoca, njll, lokhu akusho ukuthi nabanye kufanele bakwenze. Wonke umuntu unelungelo lokukhetha ukuthi yini okufanele adle nesikhathi. Uma umemele othile ozovakashela akudingekile ukuthi akhonze imifino, ama-cutlets, njll njll etafuleni. Kuwo wonke umuntu wayekhululekile, lungisa ukudla okuzobe kokubili okumnandi futhi okuphansi kwekhalori.
Umthetho 7. Ungatshele ukudla kwakho kubantu
Cishe wonke amalungu omzimba ocansini onamandla athukuthelelwa yi-theme yesisindo sokulahlekelwa nesisindo esiningi. Uma uthanda indoda, kungcono ugcine umlomo wakho uvaliwe. Ngosuku, akudingeki ulandelele amanzi kuphela, ngoba uzobeka umlingani wakho esimweni esibucayi futhi ukhombise "ukungapheleli" kwakho. Cishe yonke imenyu yamakholomu nezindawo zokudlela inezitsha zokudla neziphansi, yilokho bese zibayala.
Inombolo 8. Akumelwe ulandele ukudla kwakho
Wanquma ukulahlekelwa isisindo, kodwa hhayi wonke amalungu omndeni. Ngakho-ke, landela imithetho yokulahlekelwa isisindo ngokwakho. Cha, yebo, uma abathandekayo banquma ukukusekela futhi bashintshe nokudla, kuhle, kodwa kufanele kube ngokuzithandela. Yenza ama-scandals mayelana nokuthi ulambile, kanti abanye badla okufunayo, okungalungile. Chaza ngokuthula emndenini wakho ukuthi yini oyifunayo ekudleni nokuthi yini oyidingayo lokhu. Futhi futhi ukusikisela, yiziphi ngempela ezingasiza, isibonelo, ukwenqaba izitsha ezithile ezilimazayo.