Njengabazali abazange bavikele ingane yabo, ngeshwa, akusiyo njalo ukulawula ukuhlaselwa kwethu emanzini nasekulimaweni. Inhloko ihlupheka kaningi ezimweni ezinjalo.
Uma uzama ukubona kuqala izimo lapho umntwana angathola khona ingxabano, uhlu luzobukeka kanje:
- Ezinyangeni ezingu-4-5, izingane zisebenza ngokwengeziwe, zingakwazi ukugoqa emaphethelweni etafula (sofa, imibhede) nokuwa.
- Abazali baphonsa ingane, futhi yena, ehamba ngezinyawo, angakwazi "ukuhamba" ephahleni noma emasakeni, ewa ngale ndlela.
- Abazali bangase bangabamba ingane lapho ebuya "ezindiza".
- Uma abantu bezama ukubetha ikhanda emakhanda abo, bangakwazi ukushaya ikhanda ngekhanda lakhe, umnyango, njalonjalo.
- Ukukhula kwentsha, ngokuvamile uqobo lwakhe usetshenzisweni yokuthola ukuthi ukukhuphuka nokuthi kuphi. Ingozi eyengeziwe yokuwa esihlalweni, sofa, njll.
Imiphumela yezingxabano ezinganeni
Ukucubungula emntwaneni nosana oneminyaka eyodwa kuyajwayelekile. Ngakho-ke, abazali kufanele baqaphe ngokwanele ukugwema ukuwa. Phela, imiphumela yokuncintisana ezinganeni ingazibonakalisa esikhathini esizayo, ngokucindezela kakhulu izimpilo zabo. Eqinisweni, uma uthola ingxabano okungenani kanye empilweni yakho, kuzokukhumbuza njalo ngawe ngisho nangemva kweminyaka eyishumi kuya kwemihlanu. Abantu abanjalo bayathukuthela ngokweqile futhi basengozini. Ingane ngemuva kokulimala okunjalo ingakhala ngokuphindaphindiwe kunokujwayelekile. Isimo sokucindezeleka singase sikhule futhi esikhathini esizayo. Abantu abanjalo ababekezeli ukushisa nokubandayo, kunzima ukugxila, bangakwazi ukuphazamiseka ukulala nokulala, bangase bahlushwa yi-claustrophobia.
Ukuncintisana kwabantwana: izimpawu
Uma umntwana eshaya ikhanda lakhe bese ephethe isisu, ukujuluka, ubuthakathaka, ukucabangela nokuhlanza, ukukhohlwa noma ukukhumbula inkumbulo, ukulahlekelwa ukwazi, ubuso obusobala, ngezinye izikhathi umqondo wokulahleka emkhathini, ingane ibonakala ngokucacile ngamehlo aphukile, ngokushesha ucele ukunakekelwa kwezempilo! Ingane inenkinga!
Usizo lokuqala uma kunengxabano
Uma umntwana ekwazi, umbeke phansi bese uvale ukushisa. Beka ingubo ngaphansi kwengane engavumeli ukudlula okubandayo.
Uma ingane, ishaye ikhanda, ipholile, imbeke eceleni kwakhe. Bheka ukuthi ingane ihlala eceleni kwayo.
Phawula ukuthi kungakanani isikhathi ingane engazi lutho. Khona-ke udokotela uzobuza ngalokhu. Yazi ukuthi izinga lokushisa lomzimba elinengxabano yobuchopho lihlala livamile.
Ukuncintisana kwabantwana: ukwelashwa
Okokuqala, kufanele sinikeze ingane ukuphumula nokuthula. Noma yini ecasula ubuchopho, kufaka phakathi ukufunda, ukubukela i-kathathu kufanele igwenywe.
Umndeni kufanele ubuse ukuthula nokuthula. Ingane akufanele ibe ngaphansi kokucindezeleka, ungafungi ingane, futhi ngisho nokunye ukuhlanganyela ekuhlaselweni.
Ukwelapha kuthatha amasonto amabili kuya kwamathathu. Ukunciphisa ukukhanya ezinganeni kuphathwa ngokushesha. Noma kunjalo, ezimweni ezinzima, kungase kube nezinkinga eziphindaphindiwe nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Izinkinga zingabonakala njengengcindezi eyandayo yokungena.
Indlela yokuvikela ingane kusuka engxenyeni?
Ungabhekisela ekuhlangenwe nakho kwabaseMelika abachitha isikhathi esiningi bekhuluma ngezinkinga eziphathelene nempilo yezingane:
- Umthetho uvimbela izingane ukuba zigibele ngaphandle kwesigqoko esihamba ngebhayisikili, i-snowboard, i-snowmobile ne-skate. Ngenxa yokwephula, abazali bahlawuliswa.
- Ezimweni eziningi, izingane zivinjelwe ukuzihamba zize zifinyelele eminyakeni yobudala engu-12, ngoba azikwazi ukuboshwa ngezenzo zabo.
- Ungalokothi ushiye ingane encane, ngisho nengane ekhulelwe, engalindelwe ematafuleni, ngaso sonke isikhathi uyibambe ngesandla esisodwa.
- Zama ukulalelisisa nokulindela izenzo zomntanakho, ukukhipha ithuba lokuwa nokulimala.