I-Sociopath - yimuphi uhlobo lomuntu lo, indlela yokuxhumana nomuntu onjalo? Ochwepheshe bezanamuhla abavumelani ngombono owodwa ukuthi ukuxhumana komphakathi kuyadluliselwa ngefa, noma ukuguquka komuntu kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokukhuliswa emndenini ongaphumeleli ingane.
Ubani umphakathi we-sociopath ngamazwi alula?
I-Sociopath yindoda elahla ukuziphatha , izindinganiso nokuziphatha komphakathi, ayikhathaleli imizwa yabanye abantu. Ezincwadini zokudala eziphathelene nokugula kwengqondo, le disorderative disorderative disorder izwakala njengokwengqondo, kanti abantu abahlukumezekayo yizona zodwa ngaphandle kwe-psychopaths. Namuhla, i-sociopath ingumqondo obanzi, kodwa isengumuntu onesifiso sokuziphatha okuphambene nokuziphatha okungahambi kahle.
I-sociopath esebenzayo
I-sociopath ekhuthele kakhulu-ingaba umuntu onobungozi: ukuziphatha okubi, ukungabi nemithetho, phakathi kwabo izigebengu eziningi, kanye nezingqondo zangempela ze-psychopath. Ukuziphatha okungafani: ukwenza izenzo zobugebengu (ukuphanga, ukubulala, ukudlwengula, ukubangela umonakalo). Uma izici ze-sociopathic zingabonakaliswa ngokucacile, zingabonakalisa ngobuthakathaka obuncane, ukukhwabanisa, ukuziphatha okungafanelekile njengomshayeli emgwaqweni.
I-sociopath engathandeki
I-sociopath evulekile (naye uhamba phambili) ivame ukuba ngumuntu oyedwa oziphatha ngendlela efanele emphakathini futhi engabonakali isimo sakhe sengqondo sangempela kubantu, evinjelwe, eqondiswa igunya lakhe elikhethiweyo, izimfundiso (lokhu kuyinto "yokufaka esikhundleni" senembeza). Ngentukuthelo evuthayo, isibonelo, umgxeka ophikisana nomphakathi, noma ukungabaza emigomeni yakhe - kubonisa izici zobuntu bomphakathi.
I-sociopath ne-social phobia - umehluko
Kubantu abaningi, i-sociophobus kanye ne-sociopath yimiqondo efanayo, kodwa akunjalo. Umqondo we-sociopath uhlanganisa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okulimazayo okuqukethe ukuhluleka okujulile kokunamathela kwabantu nokubonakaliswa kothando nokuzwela, ngokuvamile lezi zihlukumezeka kakhulu, zibandayo. I-Sociophobia iyinhlangano yokuthola inzuzo, lapho kukhona ukwesaba ukuxhumana nabantu, ihambisana nokujabula okukhulu nokwesaba ukusho okuthile okungalungile noma ukukwenza.
Indlela yokuqaphela umphakathi?
Indlela yokuchaza imiphakathi eqinisweni? Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuqaphela iphutha elinjalo kumuntu. Laba bantu bangaba mnandi kakhulu, bahle futhi bavule ingqondo ekuhlolweni kokuqala, kodwa lokhu kuphela ukubukeka nokuhleleka kwezinto ezonakaliswayo, kufakwe esikhundleni sokuhlukumezeka, uma omunye umuntu ezama ukuphendula isicelo somphakathi ngokulahla noma ukungavumelani nombono wakhe. Ukungqubuzana okukhulu nokuntula uzwela kubantu yizinto eziyinhloko zomphakathi.
I-Sociopath - izimpawu
Kusukela emhlanganweni nomuntu womphakathi, ungalindela noma yini, ungabona kanjani ukuthi phambi kwakho umuntu ongcono ukuhlala naye? I-Sociopaths izibonakaliso zengqondo:
- izenzo ezingenasisindo;
- ukukhohlisa okungenasifo;
- ukuziphatha okungahambisani nabantu (ukuphula umthetho kalula);
- ukungabi khona kwemizwa enjengokuthi: iwayini, ihlazo, ukuzisola;
- imizwa ecasulayo;
- ukuhlukunyezwa;
- bahlale bebonisa ukuphakama kwabo kubantu;
- isifiso sokubhubhisa, njengezinto ezibonakalayo, impahla yomunye umuntu, nobuhlobo phakathi kwabantu.
Izindlela ze-sociopath
Incazelo ye-sociopath ayibonakali ukuhlukahluka kwezici ezilimazayo, nendlela abantu abanjalo abasebenzisana ngayo nomphakathi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu abanokukhubazeka nobuthakathaka bahlangabezana nezinyathelo zabo, kodwa empeleni akekho okhunjulwa ekuhlaselweni komphakathi wabo. Umkhulisi, umphakathi, usebenza kanjani:
- I-Gazlaiting iyindlela ephazamisa umqondo womuntu futhi uyethembe kuye. Umphumela wokwehlisa amanzi akungabazeki: "kuthiwani uma eqinisile, kodwa ngiphutha?". Ukuphindaphindiwe okuvamile kwe-sociopath ekuthungeni: "Cha, kwakungekho", "kubonakala kuwe" "ingabe usengqondweni yakho?".
- Ukuhlunga. I-Sociopath ayisoze yavuma ukuthi unecala nokuhluleka kwakhe - uyayilahla kwabanye (indlela yokuzivikela ye-psyche). Bathanda ukugqugquzela umuzwa wokuhlazeka kubantu abakuzungezile, ngenxa yeziphambeko zabo kanye nezimo ezingalungile. Umqambimanga uphika abanye ngokuqamba amanga, umdlwenguli ususa icala lakhe emhlabeni wonke, ekhishwa ngodlame.
- Ukuphazamiseka kwemicabango ye-interlocutor ngenkathi ingxoxo (ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo). Isibonelo, engxoxweni i-interlocutor itjela i-sociopath ukuthi "Angikhathazeki ukuthi ukhuluma nami ngethoni elinjalo", empeleni, i-sociopath izobonisa ukukhathazeka kwangempela-ukuthukuthela: "ufuna ukusho ukuthi ngimbi," "futhi usho ukuthi sinomama uTheresa ukuphelela kakhulu! ".
- Ukunyundela nokushushiswa. Ukuhleka ngemuva kweminyango yabo, tshela izindaba, "ukuveza" ukwehluleka.
Indlela yokuxhumana nomphakathi?
Uma kunethuba elinjalo, kungcono ukuthi ungaxhumana nabantu abanjalo. Okungenani ukuchithwa kwamandla kuqinisekisiwe. I-sociopath enamandla iyakwazi futhi isebenzise ngobuchule amaphuzu abuhlungu kubantu. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele futhi ungazitholi izinyathelo kanye nezinyathelo ezivela kuyo lapho umphakathi uthola injabulo ehlanzekayo. Uma kungenakwenzeka ukuhlukana nobuhlobo, isibonelo, lo muntu oseduze, kunezindlela eziningi zokuxhumana:
- ngesikhathi sokuxhumana uzama ukuzola, ungabonisi imizwa yabo;
- Kuyinto efiselekayo ukuphendula ngezimpendulo ezithandekayo "yebo", "cha";
- izingxoxo ngalokho okujabulisayo noma okucasulayo, akufanele zizwakale phambi kwe-sociopath;
- ukukhombisa isithukuthezi.
Ungasusa kanjani i-sociopath?
Ubudlelwane nomphakathi buhlala buphazamisa, bufana nomgodi omnyama ongenamkhawulo. Indlela yokuzivikela futhi uphume ebuhlotsheni obunjalo. Azikho izimpendulo ezikhonjisiwe lapha, kepha ngokulandela izincomo ezilula ukuthi kungenzeka ukunciphisa isithakazelo somphakathi wezenhlalo futhi unciphise ukuxhumana kube yize:
- Ungakhulumi ngamasu akho. Ubuthakathaka bomuntu yi-niche eyintandokazi yokuxhaphaza.
- Usizo oluvela emphakathini nganoma yiluphi uhlobo (imali, isevisi) - ayamukeleki, ukuba akhokhwe ngalowo muntu ngokungenangqondo.
- Uma i-sociopath isongela, kubalulekile ukuqoqa ubufakazi (i-e-mail, irekhodi lamakholi noma ingxoxo ngokusongelwa, ukutholakala kofakazi abangaqinisekisa).
I-Sociopath - indlela yokuphatha ngayo?
Indlela yokuyeka ukuba yintando yeningi - umphakathi wezenhlalakahle ngokwawo awubuzanga umbuzo lo mbuzo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi akudingi usizo olungokwengqondo, ungacabangi ukuthi kuyadingeka. Futhi ukwelashwa okuphoqelekile kuthathwa njengokuhlekwa yedwa nokwehlukaniswa kwenkululeko. Ngezinye izikhathi bayaqaphela ukuthi abantu abaningi abafani nabanye abantu futhi lokhu kungaba yisizathu sokubiza ucwaningi. Ukwelashwa kungadlulela ekuphileni, kanye nokulungiswa kwengqondo kokusekela kokuziphatha.
Ukwelashwa kwezidakamizwa, njengombuso, kuhloswe ngokukhululeka kwezimpawu:
- izidakamizwa;
- I-barbiturates kanye ne-tranquilizers (ukunciphisa izimpawu zokuhlukumezeka, ukungabi nesifiso);
- antipsychotics.
I-Psychotherapy:
- indlela yokuqonda-yokuziphatha yokuthuthukiswa nokuhlanganiswa kwamaphethini amasha okuziphatha;
- ukwelashwa komndeni;
- ukwelashwa kweqembu le-psychoanalytic.
Famous Sociopaths
Umuntu onenkinga ye-dissociative personality angazibonakalisa yena kanye nenzuzo yomphakathi, okuthiwa i-sociopath esebenzayo kakhulu - isibonelo yiqhawe likaBenedict Cumberbatch - umhloli wesifunda uSherlock Holmes kusukela ku-Dosle.
Amaqhawe anjengoba uDexter, uDkt House nazo izibonelo zobuntu be-sociopathic. Umuntu wangempela-umphakathi:
- Ukubulawa kukaJ. Stalin, emakamu okuhlushwa eStalin, konke lokhu kuyisici esidabukisayo somlando weSoviet period.
- A. UHitler ungumuntu ovelele, onokwethenjelwa ngobukhulu bomncintiswano wakhe, isibonelo sokuthi i-sociopath ingathonya kanjani umhlaba.
- D. Venables noR. Thomson - laba bantwana abaneminyaka engu-10 ubudala bahlukumeza ingane eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala futhi bagwetshwa ukuboshwa ejele.
- UCaligula - umbusi waseRussia owaziwayo, ngaphansi kokubusa kwakhe umbuso owaxoshwa ekuziphatheni okubi, ukufisa nokuhlukumezeka, uCaligula wajabula kakhulu ekucabangeni ngezimpi ezimbi phakathi kwamaqhawe kanye nokuhlukunyezwa.
- UKim Basinger - ngolunye lwezinkulumo zakhe esiteji, umdlali wezemidlalo uvume ukuthi ubelokhu ebhekene nokuhlalisana kwabantu kusukela ebuntwaneni, okwakungamvimbeli ukuba abe umuntu ophumelelayo.
Amabhayisikobho mayelana nomphakathi
I-Sociopaths e-cinema iyinhloko ekhangayo futhi engapheli kubenzi befilimu, amafilimu lapho inani elikhulu lezingqondo ze-psychopath liba ngabaphikisi bezinhlamvu eziyinhloko. "Ukuthula kwamaWundlu" - inhlanhla ehlabayo mayelana nomoya womphakathi okhululwa esibukweni ngo-1991 waba umkhuba. Kungani amafilimu anjalo aphumelela? Izazi zengqondo zichaza lokhu njengesifiso somuntu sokwazi okungacaci ngokuphelele. Amafilimu ngokuphathelene nomphakathi:
- "I- Orange Clockwork / A Orange Clockwork ". Iqembu elincane lezingane, eliholwa u-Alex onesihluku kodwa ononya futhi ongekho emthethweni, ephuluka ezindlini, ephanga, ehleka futhi edlwengula. Abanayo imizwelo yothando, ukuhlukunyezwa kuphela nesifiso sokubangela ubuhlungu.
- Isivinini / Isivinini . I-psychopath terrorist ibeke ibhomu elawulwa yomsakazo ebhasini lomgibeli eliqhuma lapho lihamba ngamakhilomitha angaba ngu-50 ngehora, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukuma futhi ngesivinini esiphezulu iphoyisa uJack Treven (Keanu Reeves) ufika ebhasini, akasenaso isikhathi sokuvala ibhomu.
- " I-Dark Knight ." Ifilimu evela ochungechungeni lwamacwecwe mayelana ne-Batman. I-Gotham indawo ephazamisayo, exhaphaza ngamanqamu omphakathi, iningi lazo liyi-sociopaths. Bonke baphakeme kuneJoker - i-sociopath supervillain, eshiya intaba yezidumbu ngokumomotheka ebusweni bakhe.
- "I- Psycho / Amerian Psycho yaseMelika ." Phakathi nosuku, uyisakhamuzi esijwayelekile saseMelika, esingenakuqhathaniswa nesixuku, kodwa ngobusuku ungumbulali oyinkimbinkimbi onenzondo ngabantu kanye nesifiso sokudinga igazi nebudlova.
- " Kukhona okungalungile ngoKevin ." UKevin wakhula njengomfana ongajwayelekile: wakhala isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokuyeka, cishe akazange akhulume nhlobo iminyaka emithathu. Lapho eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala, uKevin uthola eyedwa kuphela ukuzijabulisa nokuphuma-izincwadi mayelana ne-Robin Hood. Ubaba usekela indodana yakhe, futhi ngoKhisimusi kumnikeza umnsalo wezemidlalo. Izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba uKevin abulale uyise noodadewabo iminyaka engu-16, ushaya phansi othisha nabalingane nabo ekilasini.